Jerry, I was lying in bed unable to sleep thinking why I'm not getting any followers. What am I doing wrong. Eventually I picked up my phone and went on steemit to see if I gained a follower. I actually lost one... I started just reading random post and stumbled upon yours. Rarely do I read such a long post but everything you said felt like you were scolding me becuase here I am doing exactly the same even though my online presence is still in it's baby stages. Everything I'm doing is wrong. I'm going back to the drawing board and will start to think of what I can give instead of what I can get. I like how you use the example of a serious relationship. I am and always was a good partner. So those experiences could relate to this. Thank you for opening my eyes. If I could I would buy you a beer. But instead, please take my upvote knowing it is a genuine upvote from my soul to yours. I will get rid of my greedy ways and start looking ar what I can do to make others happy instead of only getting what I want. Thank you.