@scrooger love that you shared this because it reminds me my first key step is feeling like I am worthy of love and belonging because without that it is hard to be interested in helping anyone else out in life. For me, it took being a part of a community that felt like a family for months to learn about what gets in the way of feeling like I am a good person that has something valuable to contribute to life. Once that is there life seems to present opportunities everywhere to help like this which I hope was helpful!