Born to be human, no one in this world is perfect. We can't satisfy all the needs of others, and we can't make everyone happy. It is a kind of wisdom to let others be guilty of grievances. It is a kind of wisdom to disappoint people.
Those who are afraid of letting others down are generally tempered, but they may not be happy themselves.Disappointing others does not seem to be a state of mind for others. In fact, this may be the performance of hidden narcissists.
Allow yourself to be a person, not a perfect God. Everyone has a moment to disappoint others. Everyone can make mistakes. This is also a kind of life wisdom.
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