I don't really know that the concept of fate seems to make a lot of sense in the manner in which it is commonly 'understood'. I tend to align with the notion that we have a large part in creating our reality, even if unconsciously.
So here's a mind bender... could there be another you in another timeline/reality that did move to Canada and is living out that experience at the same time you are living out your present reality? :)
You have a beautiful family. :)
That's an advantage of having a twin brother. One could have gone there and at the end we compare results! Thank you very much for your nice comment @erinn. I am calling to everyone who see my other me in Canada to let me know!