The sex doll saga: My view on the subject

in #life7 years ago

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A lot of rave at the moment going on about the sex dolls. The truth is what is classified as a doll first of all?
A doll in this sens e is classified as a life like object designed to have the external features of man. For years, dolls have been around, though not quite as popular as in recent times but they have been around.

The patronage of such items is now in high demand and by my estimation, one in three men supports the availability of such dolls and one in five might actually sleep with one of the opportunity avails itself.
The dolls which cost around $2,500 and above have been specially designed to suit the taste and fantasy of the average man.

But what will prompt a full grown man to acquire or use such a doll

  • Lack of satisfaction
  • Low self esteem
  • Fear of sexually transmitted diseases
  • Availability
  • Cost of maintaining such doll
  • Special disorders

Lack of satisfaction

The leading factor in cheating partners, when one partner is not satisfied, the person tends to look outside for external satisfaction. The presence of these dolls give people with high sexual prowess a sense of fulfillment without having to hospitalize a real life being.

Although it is recommended to find someone who matches your sexual drive, but then again, such individuals cannot go hopping from one partner to the other looking for a match, the doll prevents that.

Low self esteem

Some people term it shyness towards dating or getting laid, the proper term for it is low self esteem. An individual meets another person the individual wants to ask out or be with, but maybe out of general fear or fear of rejection, the person may opt for such dolls which won't require stress before giving in.

For a purchase fee, such doll(s) is acquired and used for what ever purpose the owner desires and it is considered legal as long as it is practiced solely on such dolls only.
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Fear of S.T.D.

Rubber dolls don't keep multiple sex partners, neither do they pee about, hence the chances of spreading sexually transmitted diseases to the owner is zero(unless I am missing something).
With a reduction in sexually transmitted diseases stemming from the use of such dolls, naturally, one may opt to buy one and save the stress of antibiotics and others.

Sexually transmitted diseases claim so many lives yearly and high antibiotics consumption can be also attributed to sexually transmitted diseases.

Availability

The dolls are readily available in all shapes, size and colors. They are also programmed to have intercourse anytime, any place, any day.
Should the owner desire sex in a car park, the sex doll will rise to the occasion and give as many rounds as the batteries permit.

Cost of maintaining such dolls

A friend of mine teased that you don't have to buy expensive weaves and worry about alimony anymore, all you needed to worry about was a good power supply.
Apart from routine upgrades, I don't think the doll requires extra expenses for it to consider you a good boy.

The doll won't also divorce you in a flash of momentary anger and take away half your property like my friend said, it'll remain with you for life (or until the robotic invasion happens).
In actuality, the cost of maintaining such dolls is low.

Special disorders

There are individuals with special disorders whom theses dolls are better suited for. An example is a pedophile, instead of raping innocent kids and all, get a doll and leave the kids to be safe. Pedophiles make my stomach turn but if the dolls keep the kids safe, then I will go with the lesser of both evil.

Another thing people suffer from is having this obsession with certain individuals, eg celebrities, this fixes that problem.

Honest opinion

Even if we cast stones, people will still buy dolls, but a doll can give sex but not love. You might come home to it daily and meet it where you left it but that's where it'll remain until you move it. It doesn't feel emotions, cannot share in your pains and joy and can never replace the real deal.

We might think the opposite sex to be annoying, but ask yourself, what will life be without them? The answer is there'll be no life.



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Well, if I had to fall back on a sex doll for releasing my sexual thrift then it would absolutely not improve my self esteem... To the contrary, I think I would feel lower than ever before.
IMHO

Thank you Jare! Besides, where's the fun in sleeping with a womam/thing that would probably just lie like a log of wood.

I have seen it all. Angel Gabriel, start dusting the trumpet please.

Sexing a doll will make me feel insane or less human.

That's crazy, the world is crazy

This is just so crazy...... A sex doll, yack, it can never compare with / nor replace the real thing.

Exactly.. what kind of person uses a sex doll? I would never had that idea even if I would be single

This sex doll thing has been trending on most social medias for a while now and funny enough some female folks keep commenting about it as if it is an issue and when you read their comments it's like they are worried about this sex doll of a thing and believe me I am very disappointed. A sexdoll can only do one thing out of many things a human female can do so why worry when you have a thousand advantages over a simple doll?

Im saving up my sbd ohh I'm hoping to buy one, i won't mind getting donations ✌✌

Should the owner desire sex in a car park, the sex doll will rise to the occasion and give as many rounds as the batteries permit.

This👆 part got me laughing. But the truth remains. "Another man's food might be another man's poison" so no matter how much we might despise the idea, people are buying it as we speak. It has its own benefits and downside as well!

But if you ask me, its not really a bad idea.

An example is a pedophile, instead of raping innocent kids and all, get a doll and leave the kids to be safe.

This is why i think so.

Good post @ehiboss .

It was educative and funny at the same time. ;-)

Why am I having the feeling you have had to use one before

I have not, however I can order one for you if you secretly wish to use it.

Oya na

But am gay
I need a guy doll
#winks

It a top of the range masturbation toy. Beats a melon any day. If I was single it would be great fun. At least you cant pop them like a blow up.

What the fuck? lol

No matter what i will never pick a doll over human, nice post brother.

,, It doesn't feel emotions, cannot share in your pains and joy and can never replace the real deal''.
Never say never...sex doll can't feel emotions, but in the future may be able to imitate them and that may be enough. We already have bots that can engage in conversations with humans...still imperfect, but in the future those artificial programs could be indistinguishable from genuine human beings. They may be able to recognise human emotions, preserve data about somebody's hobbies, worries, goals...build realistic doll, install all that software and voila - her owner will be able not only to have sex with her, but also talk about his life, treat her like artificial girlfriend. Today it still impossible, but who knows what tomorrow will bring? Thirty years ago people would call you crazy if you had told them that soon cars will be able to move without driver inside them.

Boss this sex doll matter weak me o. I have not been paying too much attention to all the hullabaloo but my brother has been trying to drag me into a conversation on it. All your points are quite valid and yet, it still fills weird. But weirder things have happened before, right?
While these sex dolls can give sexual satisfaction (possibly), it can give love or true companionship. If dolls for sex are available, then they might as well make dolls for human interaction. What that says of the human communities, I don't know.
It is bad enough that we rather interact with our phones and laptops than with our next door neighbors.
Soon we would depend on machines for every thing. It's just sad. But what can I say, human needs are numerous; even machine makers will not satisfy them all.
Peace.

The lengths people now go to for hedonistic pleasure is shocking.
I am of the opinion that having sex with a sex doll is akin to sleeping with a corpse; lifeless, emotionless and plain silly. I hope they find proper help.
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I am of the opinion that having sex with a sex doll is akin to sleeping with a corpse; lifeless, emotionless and plain silly.

Corpses aren't made of silicon and do not use batteries

True, but the reference wasn't to texture.

There is this Chinese proverb that says no matter how hard the wind roars the mountain can never bow to it
No matter how impeccable man may in his wisdom create that doll to be it can never be as what God has created
The woman
Make no mistake
God gave man that wisdom in the first place now man wants to use it in the most ridiculous manner

I will say that people are just showing their level of stupidity by buying a doll for sex. When God created man he did not give him a doll so why should some men buy sex doll. May God have mercy on them. Whatever reason they have sex doll is not good. Who knows the after effects it may have which have not been identified yet. Thanks for sharing

The technology is here, AI and robotics would only get better. What people do in the privacy of their homes should be their business as long as no one is hurt. It is all about preference as some would choose a real person over a doll while others may choose a doll over a real person. The future would be an interesting one.

I personally find the craze for these dolls absurd and uncalled for...

the main reason is that people who use a doll are completely safe from any kind of Sexual Transmitted Diseases , some people can afford STD test every week moreover there are nymphomaniacs who can protect their selfs from these illnesses

What if we look at it from yet another perspective? Let's say some people resort to sex doll because they want to cheat on their partners. Would that make any logical sense. If you were a lady and you could not satisfy your man well enough, would you rather your man got it from a doll or another fleshly woman like yourself?

Fear of S.T.D.
Rubber dolls don't keep multiple sex partners, neither do they pee about, hence the chances of spreading sexually transmitted diseases to the owner is zero

Hmmm.... Nawaooo, well let's pray it does more good than harm... Cos to me technology is cool but can never replace nature... Nice post boss.

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I agree with you, sex dolls can do so much but they can't replace the ladies role, they're inanimate objects and as such cannot portray or share feelings with its owner.

I agree with you, sex dolls can do so much but they can't replace the ladies role, they're inanimate objects and as such cannot portray or share feelings with its owner.

And porn is just a collection of 1s and 0s, but that doesn't stop hundreds of millions of people from using it daily to get off instead of going out to find a woman.

Who would ever want a sex doll! This world is a little less above being flushed away.

Who would ever want a sex doll!

Some people

I'd say that it would be great to have a doll that looks perfect.

Actually, that is what I would want when I was younger.

But, now I feel it's not so important to have a perfect looking "thing" in the bedroom.

I believe that these things are for people that are not able to get a girl by themselves.

so much hullabaloo over a sex doll; it's good business for the marketers of sex dolls; since you guys can't stop commenting or reacting to it. If you ask me for my own candid opinion about sex dolls; maybe that will end of this needless raping spree, maybe it will solve the problem of those who are sex freak, maybe it will help some lonely people who are just tired of hugging their pillows wishing for something closer to the real thing... as for me; na who sex dolls help make him come out come tell us for hia so... Lobatan!

This is just the true reality of the world we live in now, and for those who have not started having children, this is the world our unborn children will wakeup to.

You mean unborn children that might never be born because the sperm cells were wasted on a doll

Lol...at least I am sure that my sperm cells won't be wasted on a doll, and I belelieve that yours won't be wasted either.

Sex doll is overrated to me there are a 1000 and 1 things a doll cannot do that a human offers in a relationship and to be frank I don't have time to argue on this anyone that's having issues with the doll should sort out his/herself first

To me it's not a good idea, how on earth could someone just bring this kind of idea, it's just not a good stuff, this text is dedicated to the inventor of sex dulls.

Even though I am not satisfied by my wife, i will rather go for another than going for this sex dull of a thing.

omg your not satisfied? What is wrong with you! Get one of those sex dolls and do not stay with the poor woman if you talk about her like that. Some people... 😖

Nice write on sex doll
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lol china no go kill person o

You are right, as beautiful and sexy as these dolls are I don't think they can replace the usefulness and presence of a real woman.

Besides, men who say these dolls are better companions are not being true to themselves and they should tell themselves the truth.