DON'T LET YOUR EX DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE
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One of the most delicate problems in relationship is the issue (menace) of EX LOVERS.
Keeping a close contact or being in communication with your EX is not advisable if you had started another beautiful healthy relationship or in the process of starting a new healthy relationship. Also I want you to know that friendship with an EX cannot continue after marriage due to the past intimate emotions shared when dating the EX.
Have you ever thought of, or recall personally why they left in the first place, or behaved the way they did when in the relationship? Have you???
The truth is that if they truly loved and missed you, they should not have left you or dumped you the way they did. Rather they would have either married you or break up with you mutual ground without much bitterness or heartbreaking emotional trauma.
My beloved dearest friends, followers and most esteemed steemians, be cautious how you relate personal details with your Ex, never ever discuss your current relationship with your EX, or the one you intend going into. It is a dangerous path to thread I must forewarn you.
If you have started a new beautiful relationship or you are married to your new immaculate spouse, please dearly beloved ensure to keep your EX at a distance. And they (your ex) should do you the honour of please stepping aside while you enjoy your new relationship, dating, or marriage.
Now dearest beloved! Please pay attention to this true facts I will write now;- Some EX lovers are very crafty, smart, stubborn and can as well blackmail you to do his or her bidding. They can also be very desperate. So be very wise and alert too.
Often times they can suddenly wake up, and start hunting for you under the guise of;- Let us come back together, You are my life, Ever since I left you I have not known peace, It is the work of the Devil, I do not know what came over me, I need you back, Please give me a second chance............................ bla bla bla.
If you find yourself in such a situation with an EX lover, never ever be naive to fall for his or her crap story or excuse, if you have already found a new relationship that you are happy with or if you are already married.
EX Lovers always come with stories that touches the heart so do not give a hut about it dearest beloved. Because it can ruin your happiness the second time and forever. I have counselled a great number of single and married people who had have affairs with their EX. To be honest, most EX wrecked their homes leaving them frustrated and in perpetual agony. Once you are caught, your relationship and marriage would not be the same again.
Let me be frank with you, we are humans with emotions, and emotions do not die. It is very hard to forget an EX. Especially those ones you shared your heart, body, soul, money, time, affection, attention, and love with.
So the feelings you had for your EX lovers do not died completely but for you to move on and enjoy your new relationship, dating or marriage with your new partner, you need to keep your EX Lover away, restrict communications as much as possible with your EX. And finally you have got to love your Man or Woman like they are the only one in the world.
Most times, you may bump into your EX Lover, you need not turn back to look twice, because if you do, you may suddenly discover that you still have hidden feelings and passions for an Ex and any mistake may trigger an affair which might not end peacefully.
Little wonder some Men and Women still sleep with their EX while still under a new relationship or in their husband's house.
What did you really miss in your EX? Is it the abuse, the heartbreak, money, swag, romance, etc?
Are you really being fair to the new person you are with???
Can't you calmly teach him or her how you like it, how you desire to be cared for, romanced, kissed, touched, smiled at and given attention all the time, can't you make it work? Why going back to your vomit?
I dare you to say no to an Ex relationship, unless you are with no one and you see genuine repentance and change in him or her, then you can give it a rethink.
Keep your EX Lover off your relationship, dating, marriage and all that has to do with your private life.
Better watch it, they always come back when you are happy, when you are about to marry and when someone has given you what they couldn't offer you which is true love.
Your EX Lover took a decision to turn his or her back on you, its his or her choice not to marry you and now that you are happily married or in a good relationship, they should leave you alone and let you enjoy your relationship, dating, courtship and matrimony.
Beware Most Ex are manipulators. Shine your eyes. You don't resolve
heartbreak by having an affair with an Ex lover thereby breaking your new partners heart.
Go ahead and resteem this post till all beloved Steemians reads it. I love you forever dear friends, followers, and the great steemit community at large! Much love. Cheers.
CC;- Efelexy
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Seems like you have been thru this. It seems you experienced this kind of situation in your life. Good post, worth the read. Thanks!
You are welcome Dearie! We all go through emotional stuffs as relationship trouble at one phase of our lives or another. These experences we go through in life makes us stronger and more mature to take on life challenges head on with no fear.
Great comment dear @jpbaliw. Thanks for stopping by and taking out time to read this post. Stay blessed. Steem on dear.
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