Face Negativity with Positivity| Life quote 02

Wednesday morning, one of our consultants came to me discussing things until we touched certain topics. For him, working as an insurance sales agent for the past 20 years had taught him many things. In his line of work, talking to different people in a day and keeping the business relationship for a long term is a shady or if you do not build a real relationship. Sometimes, he felt judge by his profession. But how do we really deal negativity?

1. Let Them Judged You but Never Be Like Them

In this world full of lies and truths, it is not good to talk about what is that person is. You cannot judge the book by its cover as they said. People will keep judging and talking about you without knowing what is the truth behind you. Nonetheless, wish them well because, at the end of the day, your positivity will somehow inflict them. It will always you and God at the end of the day. Do good and it will come back to you, do bad and it will come back to you. Remember that there are 2 kinds of Karma – the good and the bad. Choose and Act wisely. Let them judge you but never be like them.

2. Don’t Beg to be Appreciated

We cannot please everybody. No matter how we strive hard, there will always be a person/s who will hate you. Focus in your inner self. Remember that not all person who dressed with fancy clothing, drove a luxurious car, and wore expensive suits won’t make a better person if your inner self is as shitty as shit. Material things may make you physically confident but at the end of the day, what you feel about yourself and how fulfilled are you about it is what matters. Doing things even if you’re not happy just to be appreciated by others won’t make you feel belong but the opposite instead. Be happy with yourself first and everything will follow.

3. IGNORE

Some people who you thought are not concerned to you will reach out and tell you what’s happening. While you have people who you thought they’re you’re close friends but eventually they are the ones who destroys you. I tell you what’s the good thing, in this situation, you will see the real people who will stand-up for you not talk behind you. You will see who’s real and not. But instead of hating them, treat them same as you treated them before. Still, be nice to them. Why? Because goodness of the heart will pay off. It may not be now, or may not happen at all but the glee of ignoring those kind of behaviour is a well paid off possession. Ignore that is the best you can do to those kind of people.

4. Be the person who you want to be with

Some people will never see the YES in you however, try to look on the positive side and stop doing things just to have their approval. Remember that God made you perfectly so pay HIM by making importance to His creation none other than yourself. You cannot jive in a group where there’s no similar vibes. Be that person you want to be with and see the magic. Whatever you invested in your inner self will come around and without noticing, whatever is your inner vibe is, it will reflect to those people who surrounds you. As the saying goes “tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.”

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Realization

It’s always nice to talk to people who give great sense and reflection. Yes, we should ignore everything even how poorly we are treated and being gossiped by others. Remember, God always see and hear the shout of your heart. Just be the best you can be for yourself. Facing negativity and hard time is very tough but by facing it with positivity will make a very big difference.

Thank you and wishing you all the best.

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