There is one question I've always found unnerving. Anything in the line of 'what is your next plan' irks me because I assume I'm expected to lay out some big short-term plan that has to do with a job or starting a business.
I've found my way around that question with my parents so many times and I can sense when it's incoming so I avoid it completely.
Some months ago, a friend (one I place on a high pedestal) asked me about my plans for when I get married and move to Kaduna. Coming from her, I didn't feel attacked unlike when my parents throw that same question at me.
Feeling less like a fraud of a writer that particular day, I told her I was going to go hard writing on hive and secure more writing gigs.
Wow. My imposter syndrome really flew out the window and I boldly referred to myself as a writer. That was the first time I did that without mincing words.
I'm just shitposting on hive half the time and getting a few writing gigs but that's what pays me. I've earned more from writing than I have at any job or side hustle.
There's another friend who asked me the same question about my plans and when I told him, he couldn't wrap his head around why I'd want to focus on writing instead of starting a business.
I would infact love to start and grow a business but it's not just the first call of action right now.
I look at these friends and laugh because they obviously can't tell I'm taking a cue from them. They both have something going on for them that looks funny to others but they don't mind, they do it because it pays them.
Slaving away at a shitty job, affiliate marketing, or running a small scale business, whatever, the primary aim is still to make money so we all go where the money resides.
It's still not a real job to a lot of people, I don't have a fixed salary or an impressive title to my name but I'm committed to writing and that makes me a writer.
So far, I'm all in one piece and I barely remember whining about not having a job since being active on hive. All I do now is mind the business that pays me.
I think everyone should do that. Double win when you enjoy it as I do.
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Going 2 dig into reading ya stuff
Keep on writing
Write and write ✍️ some more
You got this
Well, thank you
That's true
We should all go where we enjoy making our monies from
No one should judge you if you don't want to start a business yet, but for focus on your writing gigs
I can imagine how it feels to explain this kind of living to our parents especially if we have ones who are used to wearing outfits and leaving home for work
If we enjoy what we do, and it fetches money, then, we should go ahead and be actively present there
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