Good evening, blogging friend, here I am for the first time writing in this community and participating in this initiative. I'm happy to be here, and today's topic has inspired me. Are bad tempers and bad behaviors innate, or do we develop them as we grow up? In my personal experience, it's a mix of both. There are families that raise all their children equally, with the same education, opportunities, and love, yet perhaps one of the children becomes a bad person. Or there are disastrous families with serious problems, drugs, alcohol, and violence, from which, however, good, balanced, and non-violent children emerge. I believe that the environment undoubtedly has a significant impact on a person's growth. Living in a good climate helps people grow healthier and more balanced. Having a protected environment where they feel safe, where nothing is lacking—materially, emotionally, economically, and socially—certainly helps develop a balanced and well-adjusted character. Receiving love, affection, and security, in my opinion, is a great source of wealth and good fortune and helps us develop harmoniously. Obviously, every family has its own values and beliefs, but beyond religion and politics, if a family is one where peace and harmony reign, in my opinion, it has a greater chance of raising harmonious and well-rounded people.
Buenas noches, queridos blogueros. Escribo por primera vez en esta comunidad y participo en esta iniciativa. Me alegra estar aquí, y el tema de hoy me ha inspirado. ¿El mal genio y las malas conductas son innatas o las desarrollamos al crecer? En mi experiencia personal, es una mezcla de ambas. Hay familias que crían a todos sus hijos por igual, con la misma educación, oportunidades y amor, y aun así, tal vez uno de ellos se convierta en una mala persona. O hay familias desastrosas con graves problemas, drogas, alcohol y violencia, de las cuales, sin embargo, surgen niños buenos, equilibrados y no violentos. Creo que el entorno tiene, sin duda, un impacto significativo en el desarrollo de una persona. Vivir en un buen clima ayuda a las personas a crecer más sanas y equilibradas. Tener un entorno protegido donde se sientan seguros, donde no les falte de nada —material, emocional, económica y socialmente—, sin duda ayuda a desarrollar un carácter equilibrado y bien adaptado. Recibir amor, afecto y seguridad, en mi opinión, es una gran fuente de riqueza y buena fortuna, y nos ayuda a desarrollarnos armoniosamente. Obviamente, cada familia tiene sus propios valores y creencias, pero más allá de la religión y la política, si en una familia reina la paz y la armonía, creo que tiene mayores probabilidades de criar personas armoniosas y equilibradas.
But what happens if you're born into a dysfunctional family of any kind? There's a saying that goes, "Happy families are all alike; unhappy families are all unhappy in their own way." There are various types of bad families, from those with drug problems, addiction, and violence, to those that appear beautiful on the surface but are deep down filled with malice, envy, conflict, and tension. If you grow up in an unhealthy and cruel environment, you're likely to learn that lifestyle and those ways of behaving, because, unfortunately, they're the ones you've always seen, and therefore you're more likely to reproduce them. If you grow up without rules, amid chaos and violence, it will be much harder to become a harmonious and peaceful adult. Bad families can be a bad influence. But there are exceptions, too. There are people who become bad even with a loving family, so there's certainly an innate part to character development, which, in my opinion, can be shaped by growing up with certain stimuli, both negative and positive. Even those who come from bad families don't always become bad people. There are people who manage to be good even in the midst of cruelty and tyranny. This is my opinion on the subject. I hope I haven't bored you!
¿Pero qué sucede si naces en una familia disfuncional de cualquier tipo? Hay un dicho que reza: "Todas las familias felices se parecen; las infelices, cada una a su manera". Existen diversos tipos de familias problemáticas, desde aquellas con problemas de drogas, adicciones y violencia, hasta las que parecen perfectas por fuera pero que en el fondo están llenas de malicia, envidia, conflictos y tensiones. Si creces en un entorno cruel y poco saludable, es probable que aprendas ese estilo de vida y esas formas de comportarse, porque, lamentablemente, son las que siempre has visto y, por lo tanto, es más probable que las reproduzcas. Si creces sin reglas, en medio del caos y la violencia, será mucho más difícil convertirte en un adulto armonioso y pacífico. Las familias problemáticas pueden ser una mala influencia. Pero también hay excepciones. Hay personas que se vuelven malas incluso con una familia amorosa, así que sin duda existe un componente innato en el desarrollo del carácter, que, en mi opinión, puede moldearse al crecer con ciertos estímulos, tanto negativos como positivos. Incluso quienes provienen de familias disfuncionales no siempre se convierten en malas personas. Hay quienes logran ser buenos incluso en medio de la crueldad y la tiranía. Esta es mi opinión al respecto. ¡Espero no haberlos aburrido!
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A child who will be bad will be bad; the behaviours of children are not always a result of what the child may or may not inherit from the parent, sometimes the environment just overshadows everything. Living at home for school influenced me a lot, and I became a different person from who I was and what my parent trained me to be. This is why I strongly believe that the environment we find ourselves usually has a way around our behaviours