It's Never Too Late to Visit Our Loved Ones

Happy CHOOSEday my @asean.hive family. This is the last week of November I can't believe that I was able to surpass eleven amazing months. I want to thank God for his guidance upon us all. I hope December will bring us joy and abundant blessings.

Today's post is visiting our loved ones in the grave. It's never too late to put flowers and candles on them. I brought my kids with me to visit their older cousin that died because of drowning in our water world. The flood was not that deep, but his companion panicked that cause them to both drown and died. The memories are still fresh on my mind, eight years ago my husband and his relatives are searching for their body. Her mother just got in time after they got the body that was cold as ice. A tear fell on the eye of the 14 year old boy. They tried to revive it but it seems that they were both called in heaven. Her mother often collapse in his son's wake and vigil. Their reason; his so strong, no illness and all of sudden he accidentally drowned. They didn't blame anybody but it was very painful.

We bought flowers for them, I was holding Ria because she want to come with her siblings on the store.

Their Kuya Mak-Mak treat them like his younger siblings. Because he was the youngest on his family. I still recall the screams as his body lay on the coffin. But I know even apart his watching and guiding his family always.

We don't know but Ria was so afraid inside the cemetery. She was crying and wanted to come home immediately. Last year she was also like that, so we took her fears away we went to park and eat some snacks.

The park has a playground, honestly I have fear on the sound of the swing. But to overcome I have to listen and faced my fears. Ria was so happy, she also met a friend that played with her. I told my kids when I sat on a dry place, I'm so lazy going back to our house. All I want is to stay and be at peace, but even a day has nights. So we need to go home, I promise Ria will get back. I just hope that when we returned the slides are fixed or new.

Thank you for reading
XoXo, @usagigallardo015