DUE TO TYPHOON ODETTE, I REALIZED HOW FRIENDSHIP REALLY IS
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Today is Wednesday, December 29th 2021.
Before I pursue my storytelling about my tittle, just wanna say Hi! Good morning and welcome to my boring story! Lol
As you can see, I have these things on me because it’s very cold with cool breeze.
I just woke up like few minutes ago and now I’m here sitting at my balcony where you can see the mess from typhoon ODETTE while having my coffee with peanut butter and Fita cracker as a partner :)
It has been over a week since super typhoon ODETTE landed on my hometown which is Cebu City with Signal number 4 or 5 (sorry just heard 5 recently) where it led us to our nearly death with miserable mindset.
Super Typhoon ODETTE has taught me how to measure relationship in terms of inner connection. There’s so many things that I have had thought about people around me, how they are, what am I for them, how they react things when I do such things, how they approach me and etc. Nevertheless, those thoughts I’ve had have been clearer and clearing in my system.
LET’S PAUSE NEED A BREAK GOTTA GO TO THE BATHROOM :D
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The minute I got out from the CR this is what it showed me, foggy and rainy view. Just wondering why do we still have rains even though we already got hit by the typhoon, I thought it would be finished since I thought typhoon has burst it all out when it landed on our land but apparently not. :(
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BACK TO THE TOPIC
For the past weeks before typhoon, I had this issue with a friend and got a little wrinkly because of that, an issue that I thought it’s just really nothing, but I realized from that day that not everyone has the same sense of humour or character like mine.
As my sense of humour was I guess too much on that day, I burst it out loud to someone that I Had trusted the most (obviously she splurged it out)
AFTERNOON
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I think TRUE FRIENDSHIP will never put you down but instead will help you lift your life up. Friendship will tell you their real point of view in things good or bad, friendship is also about helping each other, friendship will be more honest to you despite the pain that may caused by it. True Friendship is not about giving and giving, it's about reciprocating things GIVE AND TAKE same in a lover's relationship.
I think some friends don't think about reciprocating, especially when they know that you can do it even if it's just by yourself and that's something "friend" should think about what they put on the table meaning they share about...not just about money it's about sharing both interests, knowledge about everything, laughters, goals in life, can be trusted(still do not share too much :D) and look after each other, not just leeching on you all the time.
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Anyway, I am just trying to figure out what does friendship really means? Of-course I am not perfect just trying to understand FRIENDSHIP. It's just my thought and can be rectified by your comments to balance things out :)
Thank you for reading !
As we grow older, our circle of friends gets smaller.
From the saddest things, we will know who is really there for us. True friendship, is the one who dares to reveal the truth for our good, to protect us.
We will often fight with our friends, but that does not mean we are not compatible. It is precisely from the quarrel that we will understand each other more deeply, and just like the relationship between lovers, it will not destroy the relationship if we are patient with each other to understand.
Well, happy new years for you, and stay safe :)
Very well said... thanks for your comment i deeply appreciate it :*
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That's so true, this is a real lesson for life of friendship...
true friend will always be on yoiur side good or bad
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The more you fight and argue with someone but still stays by their/your side and still share laughter and always be there for you when you really need them, thats a true friend. They are like a needle in a haystack.
Happy new year to you and I hope everything there will be back to normal and always take care.
Indeed true friend will be always on your side... I appreciate your comment..
Happy New Year!.
I agree, I'm starting to realize this as well. Before college, I used to have tons of friends, and now I realize that it's better to cut them off as most of them never really cared for me or reciprocated the things I've done for them. Such great realizations! Thank you for this.
True... or sometimes better to just play along but atleast you know who your friends are...