Solitud elegida./ Chosen solitude. Iniciativa.

Hello my dear friends of @Holo-lotus, a cordial greeting to all. Answering this excellent test proposed by our friend @Emiliorios.

First I must accept that I can say that I am a fan of solitude, I really enjoy my moments, because I feel that I get many positive things out of it.

It is not that I am characterized by being socially isolated, but the truth is that I have become a very selective person when it comes to going out to share, because as you say, it is essential for the growth of the human being to listen to other opinions and other thoughts, you always learn something new by listening to other people.

I think it is also important what kind of people we share with, because for example, there are certain extreme people in my circle, that their attitudes so selfish and insensitive, make me run away at every invitation they make me to share, then when that happens, I feel it is healthier for my peace of mind not to share and stay at home, so my question is: Is this selective isolation that I do bad or is it normal?

I consider myself a very diverse person when it comes to conversation, but I am very shocked by today's fashion, because I don't know why, they always choose to make fashion or repeat things without profit that become trendy, I feel that it is the worst time invested in life and I think that's what has made me be so selective and love my solitude.

Responding now to the Quick Test based on the UCLA Loneliness Scale: ****We will now answer the following questions

1.I generally have no one to talk to.

On the contrary, I always have someone to talk to, naturally I always tend to sympathize with people.

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2.- I spend a lot of time waiting for people to call or write me.

Totally no, but if I have a problem, and perhaps it is because of my attention deficit, I tend sometimes without realizing it, leave a conversation in the middle, and sometimes a few hours or even a day go by and I realize again that I left waiting for an answer, or a conversation halfway and I answer, late but I do it.
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3.- I feel that nobody knows me well.

Not at all, I am a person with no filter as they say over there.

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4.- Lately I have felt that others ignore me.

As distracted and forgetful as I am, they tell me otherwise.

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5.- I feel lonely even when I am with a lot of people.

If I have come to feel this when I feel out of focus with so much bombardment of topics that I don't see that they leave anything positive or uplifting. I choose to go into such deep silence that I feel loneliness in company.
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6.- I feel that no one understands me.

In spite of the disjunctions that may arise on certain topics at times, in the end we end up understanding each other.
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7.- As a professional, I miss my fellow students very much.

We made a nice friendship, but they were not essential to breathe.
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Well my score is within normal parameters, but I will not deny that I am now left with a doubt about my question Is this selective isolation that I do bad or is it normal?