Hi, I'm My Teenages. I started not long ago here on Hive, so I was unaware of the existence of this community, but I love that there is a community where women can express our thoughts 😊. I would like to thank @tesmoforia for inviting me to participate because I really liked this week's questions and because if it wasn't for her I wouldn't have known about this beautiful community. I hope you like my answers.
Responder esta pregunta es fácil; creo que todo se podría resumir en el hecho de que tan solo tengo 17 años y considero que esta es la edad en la que empiezas la vida un poco más de forma independiente. O al menos a esta edad, las decisiones y caminos que tomes ya son mayormente tu responsabilidad. Creo que la pregunta realmente sería, ¿qué no me falta? Jsjs Aunque diría que por ahora lo que más noto que me faltan son las relaciones interpersonales de calidad… Sé que suena feo, pero a esto me refiero con personas que tengan metas y sueños, opiniones, pensamientos y gustos propios y que sean emocionalmente y afectivamente responsables. Estas cualidades, en mi rango de edad, es bastante difícil conseguirlas. Por ahora, me lo tomo con calma, pero poco a poco, ya voy notando más la falta de esto, y creo que también tiene que ver con el hecho de que estamos empezando nuevas etapas, como la universidad, el trabajo o otros problemas, y todos pasamos por eso… La diferencia es cómo los enfrentamos y supongo que mientras estaba en la secundaria era fácil dejar eso pasar. Después de todo solo estábamos en la secundaria, pero de la nada siento que el grupo que me rodea ya no es tan bueno y creo que para crecer y seguir avanzando es importante tener un grupo de personas a nuestro alrededor que nos nutra.
Answering this question is easy; I think it could all be summed up in the fact that I am only 17 years old and I consider that this is the age when you start life a little more independently. Or at least at this age, the decisions and paths you take are mostly your responsibility. I guess the question really would be, what am I not missing? Jsjs Although I would say that for now what I notice I'm missing the most are quality interpersonal relationships... I know it sounds ugly, but this is what I mean by people who have goals and dreams, opinions, thoughts and tastes of their own and who are emotionally and affectively responsible. These qualities, in my age range, are pretty hard to come by. For now, I'm taking it easy, but little by little, I'm already noticing the lack of this more, and I think it also has to do with the fact that we are starting new stages, like college, work or other problems, and we all go through that... The difference is how we deal with them and I guess while I was in high school it was easy to let that go. After all we were only in high school, but out of nowhere I feel like the group around me is not so good anymore and I think in order to grow and keep moving forward it's important to have a group of people around us that nurtures us.
If we talk more about the future, I would like to change the focus a little bit more, from what am I missing, to what do I still need to work on? I would say that, like everyone else, I would really like to travel and experience other cultures. I also love music and am very excited to travel to go to concerts of my favorite bands and take lots of photos and videos. Ever since I was little I've wanted to create content for social media and just this year I decided to start doing it, so I would love to accomplish my goals in that. Like getting the Twitch affiliate or reaching my goal of YouTube subscribers. I would also love to start selling clothes made by me, which is something I've always loved, making clothes and continuing to grow with my makeup and knitting ventures. I also love to write and would love to put my ideas into words and one day make them into something tangible.
Well, I think you could notice that I have many dreams and goals in things even quite different from each other and, the truth is, I don't plan to abandon any of them. In fact, every day more ideas and goals are added and I would love to succeed in each one of them, leave my mark, that someone remembers me for my streams, that they like my stories and what may come out of them, that my designs reach many people or not, but at least having enjoyed the process of trying and that someday I can sit down and watch my videos on YouTube remembering what I will have done by then and see the pictures with a smile on my face. Although I don't know if I can leave a significant mark, I hope my mark is that I didn't stay with the desire and try, and so I was happy in the attempt.
I thought long and hard about making this post. Sometimes we have things in our minds that we don't pay attention to until we write them down. Thank you for reading me and giving me some of your time. I hope you liked my first post in this community and were entertained. ❤️ I wish you have a nice life, bye!
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tokens.Good, you are ahead of the game of life @myteenages When I was 17 I still wasn't exactly making good use all my faculties leading to some regrets but there's a big world to learn and discover. Just follow your passions.
¡Me alegró mucho ver que te animaste a participar en LOH querida o7o!, hay muchos rincones interesantes en Hive que ofrecen tópicos de calidad en formato semanal o mensual, y uno de los que he encontrado de mayor calidad-substancia es precisamente esta comunidad 💗
"Sé que suena feo, pero a esto me refiero con personas que tengan metas y sueños, opiniones, pensamientos y gustos propios y que sean emocionalmente y afectivamente responsables."
Para mi eso no suena nada feo, unos despiertan a nuevas dimensiones de la vida antes que otros, lo que no significa que los demás sean menos que uno. Muy importante cuando dices la palabra "propio" y "responsables", sueno a viejita diciendo esto pero sí he notado una nueva clase de superficialidad en la generación mas joven o_o yo pertenezco a ese salto en que tuvimos acceso a internet en la adolescencia pero ya teléfonos inteligentes a los 25 mas o menos, maybe esa transición entre el libro y lo digital nos permitió hacer mas introspección al no super exponernos a las tendencias virales (que muchos jóvenes imitan aparentemente sin reflexionar sobre si lo que ven los representa, o si es bueno o malo) ~
Pero ojo! Si pudiera darte un consejo como amiga es que no idealices a los adultos ni la adultez, hay muchos muchísimos adultos muy poco responsables o empáticos, sin personalidad ni criterio propio, es triste pero real... por eso te diría que valores y disfrutes estos hermosos años de tu vida; yo sí creo que vas a lograr todo lo que propongas ! ! ✨