之前有聊過閃電約會,也就是一家公司會安排一個有一定人數的活動。在活動中安排讓每對男生與女生聊天,然後每過七八分鐘換人聊。
這個閃電約會的難度就是,七八分鐘之內要讓對方能夠記得我,因為她會跟另外十個男生聊,如果我沒說什麼特殊的東西,她大概活動結束後就忘了有我這個人。
在活動結束時,每個人會選要把自己的電話給誰,然後交給閃電約會的主持人。通常不是很多人會選我,所以在閃電約會見過面的女生,我大概都不會再碰到。
星期五晚上閃電約會時,我跟一位女生聊到我在網路上做視頻,會錄製一些自己學新的東西的過程,從不會開始慢慢進步,像這個爬繩的影片一樣。我第一天在健身房可是一步都爬不上去,但現在已經能爬個四五步了。
沒想到,這女生聽到這句話後,竟然主動要把我加到她的臉書好友,說要看我的視頻。也就是說我不用透過這個閃電約會的公司來拿到她的聯絡方式。她直接給我了。
這個女生雖然加了我,但最後她在閃電公司的表上沒選我。這大概代表我沒機會了,她加我的確就是要看我的視頻。但至少我多了一個觀眾,對吧!
話說回來我看了一下爬繩的影片,第一個月跟第二個月中好像沒什麼進步。第三個月一定要爬到頂,要不然就丟臉啦!
主动加了联系方式,还看了您发的视频,后续如果还有联系,或者能有进一步进展,哈;祝一切顺利。
这个确实比较难,就需要主动出击,主动去了解女孩,多找一些共同点,再扩展稍微讲讲自己,女孩子对你感兴趣其实成功了一半,另一半还需要老师你多努力。
虽然没选上,但是不代表没机会,你可以把她约出来先表白,比如对她印象好啊,不想就这么错过了等等,多夸夸她。机会有时候需要自己想办法。好多人说追女孩子就要脸皮厚,我觉得很对。😂
多去询问女孩子一些问题,比如对另一半或是家庭的看法,喜好,读书等等,你会找到很多话题聊的。
老师加油
幸福就在前方!
多謝O哥! 羨慕你!
加油!
詹老师加油!多交往多找话题幸福就在不知不觉中生花了哈哈~
有時候緣分不一定是第一時間就到的,當作普通朋友交往也有可能因為一個偶然契機,而產生化學效應,加油!
至少有交流的機會,不錯
It takes both stamina and strength, man. Your progress is evident in the video you made. The only problem is that I don't know if it's a good idea to use it for flirting, though flirting is something that varies between cultures so it's not right for me to give my opinion XD
I didn't use it for flirting, but I was asked what I do during my spare time so I was just answering a question 😂
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看要不要乘胜追击🤔把妹妹再约一下。约,还有50%机会。不约,就100%没机会。
I quite liked your rope climbing method 👍
只能说佩服,这么难的动作,都可挑战👍👍