Hello everyone! Today I want to share with you one of the happiest moments of my life! Almost 2 months ago I said YES to eternal love.
His name is Tommy, he is my boyfriend, future husband, Fiancé, fiance, my best friend, the one who always listens to me, tries to understand me, tells me when I am wrong, supports me in my decisions, he brings out my best , He is with me in the good and the bad. We have grown together both humanly and spiritually in a very short time, always in the hands of GOD. Because in our relationship we are not 2 but 3, Tommy, I and in the midst of us Jesus. To Him I thank Him every day for choosing someone so good for me, I could not have chosen better.
On May 11 of this year, that very early morning (5:30 a.m.), without knowing it or waiting for it, my life took a decisive course. I never thought the moment would be so special. I always saw on TV shows or youtube videos and tried to imagine what my marriage proposal would be like, but the truth is I never thought it would be so special. So it was in that little chapel where we regularly went to mass together, with the dawn and in front of God gave that moment that I would describe as perfect. With live music in the background and surrounded by the most important people (family and friends) I felt the happiest woman in this world, but at the same time with a little fear for the great and decisive step we were giving.
I know, from what I have seen, read and heard, that marriage is not simple, but I firmly believe that the bases are built from the beginning of the courtship, where communication, respect and love are the protagonists of this Great story. And although our path has not been easy, we are sure that with much effort and sacrifice we will achieve the family we want and always ready to continue learning from life and those around us.
That is why I would also like to hear the advice and opinions about marriage that you steemians want to give me. I am always open to learning from others and what better way to listen to the advice of those who, either from experience or knowledge know about the life of marriage.
The money gathered in Steemit is destined for our wedding! Thank you all for helping!
Be open and honest with each other, make time for each other even when life get busy. Never go to bed mad at each other, and take time to make out. Always go on date even after you get married, even when money is tight, a walk in the park can do much for a marriage.
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That is so beautiful. I wish you all the best for your shared future :)
Thank youuu! :P
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Congratulations to you both on your engagement! I have been married for 10 years now and I can say that you are off to a good start by keeping God in your relationship. A few things I can advise is to make your own family traditions. You don't have to rush into having children because when they get here they are here to stay lol. We waited 3 years after marriage before having children and we are glad we did. Take your time to enjoy each other first and then build on you family. Avoid allowing divisive people to have influence in your marriage. During hard times and disagreements, find the strength to still pray for one another and ask God to show you the error of your ways so He can restore you. Communication is a huge key! My husband and I have a "Confession Session". It is a session where we sit down in front of each other and just speak our hearts out. Anything that has been on our minds, anything that has been upsetting us about each other, any confessions we tell each other. We pray before and after the session. It has helped us to be more open with each other and not afraid to be face to face while pouring our hearts out. We try not to get upset with each other during the session because being open and honest is a brave thing and a must in a marriage. At the beginning of our marriage it was hard for my husband to share his heart. Now he is able to share with me more naturally without having the session. I wish you both well and may you get so much love here from other Steemicans. This is a great community~ 😊
Wow! Im really thankful for those advices, I know they will be very usefull for this new path.
I am glad to know that steemit community is always wide open to help others!
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You are very welcome. It's my pleasure. 😊 Thank you so much for the follow. Following you back :)
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