You got that right! I am for sure not “there” yet 😿 but the lesson I am learning in these past 2 years are HUGE and painful. I wish to feel “devine” and master such precious virtue so much but those weak moments run me over sometimes and makes it hard and harder instead. I try to keep my heart open but those stones are still here and don’t loosen up. Oh well ....a little bit.....@happy.food.life (my words are also for you) it’s not wrong to be weak! It’s a part of
The process to grow up! @tezmel ( also for you)
Yeah, that's the way it is!
Thank you for reconfirming my feelings! I think many people feel the same way!
It´s good for everybody to know, it´s not wrong!!
Have a nice day! Mo*Yes @mammasitta!
Honestly?
I'm weak in some cases. But is that wrong? For me, it feels more right to stand by my hurt feelings.
Even if that, from a spiritual point of view, may be a failure.
As long as it feels honest to me, everything's fine.
The saying is still beautiful! 😊🙏
Greetings from oversea, Mo*
😎 Me neither! I'll take it a little calmer today. However, the last 5 years have been a big challenge. Through the beginning of menopause (early), so many things have happened that have brought me down. I know what you're talking about!! 😉 I hope the enlightenment will come soon! 😂
Nice to write with you! 💐
That’s a big achievment. It shows that you are a strong and a wise person. Although it’s really hard to forgive sometimes, especially when the other person didn’t apologize, it’s mostly for ourselves we do it. We forgive and that heavy burden goes away. It’s like getting emotionally cleanced of something that shouldn’t be there. Otherwise it would keep hurting from inside until you forgive.
You are absolutly right but the funny thing is that I feel so “weak” at this particular time. Short on words!
I guess I had to post such simple quote today because I needed to remind myself as well as everybody in this community, what true strength really means..../
I agree with you its really had to forgive especially when the one being forgiven for never really apologized. We doubt the move to free ourselves from pain like we should be carrying it around. @Mammasitta confesses of feeling 'weak' yet we all know she's stronger than most people. I think after being bitter for decades, I know being free of inner baggage and pain is the most unrelated freedom there is :)
That’s so beautiful!
My “burden”, the personal baggage started causing real Heavy physical pain on my shoulders and neck, created stones in kidney, gallbladder and even breast. What other clear message I needed to receive from the universe, to understand that true Freedom and peace can only be achieved through forgiveness of our own mistakes and your “loved ” ones. Empathy! We are All just human!
There is no freedom without learning how to master this virtue!
I usually get angry at myself for taking time carrying it around. Because as you are saying it makes one sick :( I had chronic depression for years... And what for? I promised MYSELF never will I allow that again ❤️ #Selflove #SelfishSometimes #MyInnerPeaceComesFirst #lol
Forgiveness is a virtue and yes also an opportunity for peace!
How do you know that I am busy building a few of those doors on and on and on....
I couldn’t say more today! That’s All on my mind for this weekend. I wish you a good one!
Something about "Doors" fascinate me. I photograph them. We open and close them like chapters in a book and life.
If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door by Milton Berle
I build many, as much as I knocked them down again.
A strong mentality emerges from self-belief, inner peace and a reality check.
First of all, self belief is the most important, as it includes all aspects like confidence,love towards yourself and faith. When you believe in yourself and are your most favourite person in the world, you will always value yourself.
that is probably the hardest lesson we all have to learn in life, forgiving others and above all forgiving ourselves, and being gentler with ourselves.
@mammasitta, I dont know if you have heard the expression "what other people think of us is none of our business", which is so true but a hard one to understand. But once we learn not to take everything so personally it makes life a lot easier for us, but as you said, everyday a small step forward to understanding and accepting these things. Have a great day!
Patience is one of the most wonderful traits of mankind that comes with maturity & awareness. Indeed it needs much courage to forgive someone who does not say even sorry to you, this is what we call -Humanity.
your words shows your inner beauty as well. quote is wonderful. now how about your health @mammasitta, my wishes for you and hope for you get well soon. GOD Bless You.
Yeah. If you can master this, you will live a far happier and peaceful existence.
Forgiveness is for the one doing the forgiving, not the receiver. Letting go of transgressions, and moving on to live your life, creates peace and harmony for YOU.
In real life, this is difficult to achieve. I think only if you work hard and constantly monitor yourself. Maybe with time it will become your natural state ) At least I hope so
actually it's not that easy matter to forgive dear, but if you do forgive people it means you have a great good heart and you are really strong thanks.
Yes! Indeed and I have to admit that I am not THAT strong yet Or Let’s Say in some cases I am and in some I failed but I am driven to reach the level of absoluteness to become wise and wiser
To err is human and to forgive is divine. Forgiveness makes us strong, it builds confidence in us and prepares us for stronger challenges. Most people ill never be sorry for their wrongs and will hardly apologise even when they find out their wrongs. You are strong when you forgive and strong when accept apologies that you never received. Thanks for this thought provoking piece @mammasitta
Wow. Genau das musste ich irgendwie gerade lesen. Mir fällt Verzeihen und Loslassen total leicht - vorausgesetzt, mein Gegenüber entschuldigt sich. Andernfalls finde ich's super schwer, die Verletzung komplett gehen zu lassen. Was eigentlich Quatsch ist, da das negative Gefühl dann ja bei einem selbst bleibt. Hat mich jedenfalls gerade berührt, das Zitat :)
Yes, it took me a while to get over the hurt, but eventually I mellowed and no longer hold that grudge. In fact, I am helping that person out time and again - it's just, I know she is sorry, but she never said so. Sometimes it is hard to admit one made a mistake. Doesn't matter. Water under the bridge. I believe in Karma.
Beautiful!!!!
I am not there yet because for now my life is still upside down due to all those mistakes in a failed relationship. I am getting there step by step
BTW: you are nominated for a Retro challenge. Check my previous post
Once we make strong decisions, we become much stronger. Over time he will understand why he did it and will even regret not having done it before. Well, you will live much calmer with yourself. I say it with the voice of experience, hahaha.
So so so so true!
Already started understanding it but it’s too late.
It’s still a long way to work out a “friendship” because I am not strong enough yet to forgive. I try!
So much truth in these words. Forgiving is not an easy thing to do, saying it and meaning it is even harder.
Hugs to you and wishing you a lovely weekend.
Resteemed. Because this remains my greatest achievement yet. I was abused for a period of six months shy of a decade. The man who did has NEVER said sorry and tried to control me years after I left until I found myself and put him in his place :)
You usually give me strength. Thank you for sharing :)
Oh Gee ! So sorry to hear but you sound familiar to me. What do we have to go through sometimes is insane but as long as we have learnt our lesson it’s all good.
My hurt is still too much and therefore I am not ready to forgive yet. I wish I could.
Yes indeed but unfortunately I still feel too weak to be strong enough. Letting go sounds easy and takes some time to achieve. Peace in my mind though!
I do believe If we treat well people Who hurt us as we would like to be treated. Believe or No ,We Will getting stronger and happier.Forgiveness Is the best way to heal our pain.Have a good day @mammasitta Im sure you are a Very Nice lady,keep strong!! I like Your post.
Now you are strong and could punch straight on their faces and say thanks to them for making you stronger and they can't do anything hahah epic it would be
There are always a lot of comments in your publications. You are very attentive to your subscribers and always respond. You already have the talent to collect good people around you. I'm surprised that you have enough time for everything, because I know your story.
This holiday of butter was full of pancakes with caviar. I will definitely send you a photo of the fish market where I buy red caviar.
Did you take the time to watch the movie I recommended?
Forgiveness is the best we can do, it leaves us emotionally clean, not forgiving, pain will always exist, that is why we must be strong when it comes to forgiveness, although there they say that the only one who forgives is our God.
Hello @mammasitta, definitely what you wrote shows a great internal strength and a lot of courage to say it. Well done, there are people who are not worth it. Greetings.
That’s the point ....some are worth it but forgiveness doesn’t go hand in hand with getting close again but forgiveness gives us the peace to move on. That’s hard!
you are a person who is honest and big-minded and always forgive what happened ... if in a religion you are a person who has a sincere knowledge in person and big soul that is owned one than a million people in this world ... .
Oh how I wish I could be that strong every day for 24 hours but I am not. I am looking for help from God, Nature and the Universe.....wherever I can get help to learn to forgive truly.
busyness that can be made you happy and calm ...
may be gathering and traveling with family and friends will treat and forget for a moment the problem ....
Wow, that is the biggest achievement anyone could ever reach, indeed.
You got that right! I am for sure not “there” yet 😿 but the lesson I am learning in these past 2 years are HUGE and painful. I wish to feel “devine” and master such precious virtue so much but those weak moments run me over sometimes and makes it hard and harder instead. I try to keep my heart open but those stones are still here and don’t loosen up. Oh well ....a little bit.....@happy.food.life (my words are also for you) it’s not wrong to be weak! It’s a part of The process to grow up! @tezmel ( also for you)
Yeah, that's the way it is!
Thank you for reconfirming my feelings! I think many people feel the same way!
It´s good for everybody to know, it´s not wrong!!
Have a nice day! Mo*Yes @mammasitta!
I had to add this track and line for us :)
"LETS GO WITH THE FLOW!"
Yeahh, thats it!! Let´s go with the flow 😀👍🏻
What a words great motivational lines
Honestly?
I'm weak in some cases. But is that wrong? For me, it feels more right to stand by my hurt feelings.
Even if that, from a spiritual point of view, may be a failure.
As long as it feels honest to me, everything's fine.
The saying is still beautiful! 😊🙏
Greetings from oversea, Mo*
It’s ok to know that position of “failure” well enough, to know the difference later 😋 I can’t even count anymore how many Times I fell down
😎 Me neither! I'll take it a little calmer today. However, the last 5 years have been a big challenge. Through the beginning of menopause (early), so many things have happened that have brought me down. I know what you're talking about!! 😉 I hope the enlightenment will come soon! 😂
Nice to write with you! 💐
That’s a big achievment. It shows that you are a strong and a wise person. Although it’s really hard to forgive sometimes, especially when the other person didn’t apologize, it’s mostly for ourselves we do it. We forgive and that heavy burden goes away. It’s like getting emotionally cleanced of something that shouldn’t be there. Otherwise it would keep hurting from inside until you forgive.
You are absolutly right but the funny thing is that I feel so “weak” at this particular time. Short on words!
I guess I had to post such simple quote today because I needed to remind myself as well as everybody in this community, what true strength really means..../
I agree with you its really had to forgive especially when the one being forgiven for never really apologized. We doubt the move to free ourselves from pain like we should be carrying it around. @Mammasitta confesses of feeling 'weak' yet we all know she's stronger than most people. I think after being bitter for decades, I know being free of inner baggage and pain is the most unrelated freedom there is :)
That’s so beautiful!
My “burden”, the personal baggage started causing real Heavy physical pain on my shoulders and neck, created stones in kidney, gallbladder and even breast. What other clear message I needed to receive from the universe, to understand that true Freedom and peace can only be achieved through forgiveness of our own mistakes and your “loved ” ones. Empathy! We are All just human!
There is no freedom without learning how to master this virtue!
I usually get angry at myself for taking time carrying it around. Because as you are saying it makes one sick :( I had chronic depression for years... And what for? I promised MYSELF never will I allow that again ❤️ #Selflove #SelfishSometimes #MyInnerPeaceComesFirst #lol
Forgive, is an opportunity too
Source
Forgiveness is a virtue and yes also an opportunity for peace!
How do you know that I am busy building a few of those doors on and on and on....
I couldn’t say more today! That’s All on my mind for this weekend. I wish you a good one!
Because I spend my life sowing the trees to get the perfect wood with which that kind of door is built...
Sometimes the less we say, the more we transmit... Don't worry, don't say anything else.
Ohhh shhhhh......I only collected coconut trees....can't build doors with those, only cups and ashtrays lol
Look what I found here :
https://steemit.com/photography/@mammasitta/steemitphotochallenge-doors-or-close-the-door-on-you-past-2017924t224742924z
Hey @mammasitta, thanks for sharing! Just wrote about Forgiveness - would be happy to get your thoughts and upvotes ;) https://steemit.com/good-karma/@vikapuzach/forgiveness-sunday-and-why-i-eat-pancakes-that-day
A strong mentality emerges from self-belief, inner peace and a reality check.
First of all, self belief is the most important, as it includes all aspects like confidence,love towards yourself and faith. When you believe in yourself and are your most favourite person in the world, you will always value yourself.
I love your wonderful and deep thoughts!
💛
that is probably the hardest lesson we all have to learn in life, forgiving others and above all forgiving ourselves, and being gentler with ourselves.
Yes! Thats right! For me it is one of the hardest lessons indeed but slowly I get it.....
@mammasitta, I dont know if you have heard the expression "what other people think of us is none of our business", which is so true but a hard one to understand. But once we learn not to take everything so personally it makes life a lot easier for us, but as you said, everyday a small step forward to understanding and accepting these things. Have a great day!
Its shows how strong and loving you can beThis is really deep @mammasitta.
I had nothing more to say for today but now I say THANK YOU to your kindness! It’s not always easy to be THAT strong.....
Yeah, that is the depth of one's strength of will.
💚
Patience is one of the most wonderful traits of mankind that comes with maturity & awareness. Indeed it needs much courage to forgive someone who does not say even sorry to you, this is what we call -Humanity.
💙
Deep quote, but to answer your question...
I'm so strong I chewed off my umbilical cord when I was born.
That’s funny :)
your words shows your inner beauty as well. quote is wonderful. now how about your health @mammasitta, my wishes for you and hope for you get well soon. GOD Bless You.
🧡🧡🧡
Lovely @mammasitta, get well soon.
Yeah. If you can master this, you will live a far happier and peaceful existence.
Forgiveness is for the one doing the forgiving, not the receiver. Letting go of transgressions, and moving on to live your life, creates peace and harmony for YOU.
Cheers to you!
🦋 Living a butterfly life .....
I love it 😀
He bring the Spirit UP ! 😀 Strong!
🌺
In real life, this is difficult to achieve. I think only if you work hard and constantly monitor yourself. Maybe with time it will become your natural state ) At least I hope so
Very very difficult! I am not stronger enough yet to forgive fully but I try step by step to reach a level of harmony
"unconditionally"
the best word can't describe this quote
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actually it's not that easy matter to forgive dear, but if you do forgive people it means you have a great good heart and you are really strong thanks.
I am praying for that kind of strength .....always not only for some days of the months, years....
I've known you to be very strong in every situation. Stay stronger darling.
I try my Best and hope you do the same! 🧡
Yeah it takes a strong person to forgive a person who is not even ready to accept his fault let alone to apologize.
Yes! Indeed and I have to admit that I am not THAT strong yet Or Let’s Say in some cases I am and in some I failed but I am driven to reach the level of absoluteness to become wise and wiser
Oh, after writing their names in my death note even I am amazed how strong I am at forgiving!
You have a reason to be proud of yourself!
Thanks for making my Sunday morning prettier and stronger :)
💚💜🧡
To err is human and to forgive is divine. Forgiveness makes us strong, it builds confidence in us and prepares us for stronger challenges. Most people ill never be sorry for their wrongs and will hardly apologise even when they find out their wrongs. You are strong when you forgive and strong when accept apologies that you never received. Thanks for this thought provoking piece @mammasitta
I still have a looooot to learn to get a little closer to “divine”. It’s been a long long ride so far .....a “Neverending” journey of lessons
Wow. Genau das musste ich irgendwie gerade lesen. Mir fällt Verzeihen und Loslassen total leicht - vorausgesetzt, mein Gegenüber entschuldigt sich. Andernfalls finde ich's super schwer, die Verletzung komplett gehen zu lassen. Was eigentlich Quatsch ist, da das negative Gefühl dann ja bei einem selbst bleibt. Hat mich jedenfalls gerade berührt, das Zitat :)
for this strong Brilliant quotes Full of puddles concerned
Carrying letters full of emotion
I give you this quotes
Hey, @mammasitta, just checking on to see how you're doing and if you are feeling better at all? I am sending good karma your way. 😊
That’s so kind of you to ask. Bit shaky times ....I’m back soon
Ok, kiddo. Rest up and get better soon!
Yes, it took me a while to get over the hurt, but eventually I mellowed and no longer hold that grudge. In fact, I am helping that person out time and again - it's just, I know she is sorry, but she never said so. Sometimes it is hard to admit one made a mistake. Doesn't matter. Water under the bridge. I believe in Karma.
Beautiful!!!!
I am not there yet because for now my life is still upside down due to all those mistakes in a failed relationship. I am getting there step by step
BTW: you are nominated for a Retro challenge. Check my previous post
Wow, that is the biggest achievement anyone could ever reach, indeed.
Yes indeed and one of the hardest for me
That’s so nice!!!!
Once we make strong decisions, we become much stronger. Over time he will understand why he did it and will even regret not having done it before. Well, you will live much calmer with yourself. I say it with the voice of experience, hahaha.
So so so so true!
Already started understanding it but it’s too late.
It’s still a long way to work out a “friendship” because I am not strong enough yet to forgive. I try!
Cool :) you made my day :)
🍰🌺
So much truth in these words. Forgiving is not an easy thing to do, saying it and meaning it is even harder.
Hugs to you and wishing you a lovely weekend.
You see that’s the point!
I heard the words of apology but I couldn’t feel it was genuine and honest.
💜
Forgiveness is the best key to our inner peace
You got that right!
💜 is the answer!
Thanks so much
Resteemed. Because this remains my greatest achievement yet. I was abused for a period of six months shy of a decade. The man who did has NEVER said sorry and tried to control me years after I left until I found myself and put him in his place :)
You usually give me strength. Thank you for sharing :)
Oh Gee ! So sorry to hear but you sound familiar to me. What do we have to go through sometimes is insane but as long as we have learnt our lesson it’s all good.
My hurt is still too much and therefore I am not ready to forgive yet. I wish I could.
You can. If I did. Of course we don't get along but he longer has authority over me or my peace... I pray you find the strength to do just so :)
That would take an awful lot of strength. But in the end would definitely make you feel a lot more peace. Nothing better than letting go.
Yes indeed but unfortunately I still feel too weak to be strong enough. Letting go sounds easy and takes some time to achieve. Peace in my mind though!
All you can do is hang on until you find the strength you need. Again, always easier said then done!
Wonderful Words - How Creative Are You ?!
Thanks much!! 💛
We only get stronger with time and experiences which life give you are STRONG !!!
It’s more like a rollercoaster ride
Great to see you after a long time :D
I do believe If we treat well people Who hurt us as we would like to be treated. Believe or No ,We Will getting stronger and happier.Forgiveness Is the best way to heal our pain.Have a good day @mammasitta Im sure you are a Very Nice lady,keep strong!! I like Your post.
Such wise and Beautiful thoughts I agree with but All takes time
Yes Its true that all takes Time
life teaches us sometime very strong lessons and this was one such thanks for sharing this :)
☺️😉😘
Now you are strong and could punch straight on their faces and say thanks to them for making you stronger and they can't do anything hahah epic it would be
Hahhaaaa ! Voila! I am punching ......
Thanks for sharing your great feeling .
Stay blessed!Yes mam @mammasitta you very good strong personality . We are all learn your bloging...
Wow! That’s so nice to say but Sometimes I feel weak
Today the entire Orthodox world celebrates a forgiven Sunday.
Forgive me!
Forgive yourself!
I hope you had your pancakes and caviar and forgive every day.
I resteemed a very nice post about that day I never heard about before
There are always a lot of comments in your publications. You are very attentive to your subscribers and always respond. You already have the talent to collect good people around you. I'm surprised that you have enough time for everything, because I know your story.
This holiday of butter was full of pancakes with caviar. I will definitely send you a photo of the fish market where I buy red caviar.
Did you take the time to watch the movie I recommended?
im strong because you motivete me
Awesome!!!!
Forgive and accept, forget takes decades, but good people manage...... to live with it ....
It sounds so easy the way your words sound but IT IS NOT! I am weak ....today but I know I will be strong again tomorrow 😿
Forgiveness is the best we can do, it leaves us emotionally clean, not forgiving, pain will always exist, that is why we must be strong when it comes to forgiveness, although there they say that the only one who forgives is our God.
My pain is not “public” but forgiveness should be:) if you know what I mean.
God has already forgiven us when we were born
Forgiving is the best we can do, it makes us be good with oneself ..
Sadness but mostly Ego is standing in the way!
Hello @mammasitta, definitely what you wrote shows a great internal strength and a lot of courage to say it. Well done, there are people who are not worth it. Greetings.
That’s the point ....some are worth it but forgiveness doesn’t go hand in hand with getting close again but forgiveness gives us the peace to move on. That’s hard!
It is true, I suppose that forgiveness is part of our life and as such we must know how to manage it in both senses. Greetings
you are a person who is honest and big-minded and always forgive what happened ... if in a religion you are a person who has a sincere knowledge in person and big soul that is owned one than a million people in this world ... .
Oh how I wish I could be that strong every day for 24 hours but I am not. I am looking for help from God, Nature and the Universe.....wherever I can get help to learn to forgive truly.
busyness that can be made you happy and calm ...
may be gathering and traveling with family and friends will treat and forget for a moment the problem ....
regardAmazing words @mammasitta.
Happy weekend!
Thanks. Happy weekend.