We are in the month of love and surely Valentine's day is at the corner. I won't contribute to the abuse of this wonderful day by limiting St Valentine's day to the celebration of romance only. It is actually a day to show love to everyone- your family members, friends, colleagues at work etc.
Now let's get started, your relationship is like a corporation without a mandate and a clear goal the entire company stagnate. You need to find the root cause and impliment a corrective strategy. Now that I have your attention let us see these relationship goals as corrective strategies to 'resteem' our relationship. Won't it feel wonderful to go back to those awesome days of romance where you feel butterflies in your stomach and your face sparkles with laughter Everytime you are together? Am sure you want away back so let's go there.
1 Open sincere and intimate communication: communication is one of the pillars of a strong relationship. Let your communication be more intense, talk to each others soul and you will gradually become one another's soulmate. Set a target to have a more open and truthful communication and you will be amazed at how intimate you and bae will become.
2 Exploring new places together: visiting new places with boo makes you see the world in one another's eyes. It fosters new understanding and it gives you guys new stuffs to talk about. This is absolutely healthy for your relationship.
3 Not spying on your partners phone everytime it rings: there is always a huge temptation to see who is calling or texting bae but if bae is trustworthy you need to calm down and enjoy your relationship rather than looking over your shoulders all the time.
4 Going out on dates with friends without bombarding each other with where are you texts: good communication is good but it's an absolute turn off if you begin to monitor your spouse through mobile phones by constantly calling and texting endlessly. Give each other a break, a day off in a relationship won't harm your relationship.
5 Getting over the desire to have sex everytime you are alone together: constant sexual intercourse when you are with bae deprives you the time you need to actually get to know and discover one another. There are other interesting stuffs you can do together like cooking, playing games, helping out with chores etc.
6 Leaving your phone around knowing boo won't spy on it because you ain't hiding nothing from boo: guiding your mobile phone jealously will only arouse your spouse suspicion. Drop your phone like it mean nothing to you.
7 Playing doctor when boo is sick and vice versa: relationship is all about loving and caring for one another in good and bad times, that includes in times of sickness. Be one another's caregiver it speeds up healing. Winks.
8 Having the liberty to tell bae someone is pretty without expecting a real life drama: having a 2018 Range Rover doesn't mean you won't admire other cars when you see them. Same with being in a relationship. It does not mean you won't admire other people. Feel free to tell boo you saw someone cute and laugh over it together.
9 Planning the future together like small gods: it's good to sit together with boo and make plans for the Future even if we have no power over the future, it is relaxing to know there's someone that cares for you enough to be committed to your future. Also, it helps a couple set long term goals and achieve great things together.
10 Enjoying the same program on TV all weekend without going out: I really love this one. Imagine watching Game of thrones or Power with your spouse snuggled in each other's arms and not giving a damn what is happening outside the house? It is good for bonding and it's absolutely pleasurable.
11Not taking your relationship to social media: now ladies you really need to watch this, the fact that boo tells you he loves you so much does not mean you should take everything to Facebook. Keep your relationship's ups and downs private. No own really care on social media.
12 Praying and meditating together: this is something I feel akward doing initially but after a while I got used to it. Its a beautiful thing to pray together with your spouse. It gives the both of you inner peace. It is also said that a couple that prays together stays together.
Now that you have it, set these goals with boo and watch your relationship with boo get more intimate. Don't forget to thank me later.
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This is a long list to keep up before the day but it such an awesome list if lovers can keep up everything you've written.
Yes it is, lovers don't have to beat the deadline of Feb 14 actually. These are things we need to do regularly. Thanks for the observation.