When a word is tinged with feeling or emotion, the word is only ever opinion. The difference in saying a word from an emotionally driven standpoint can set off the slightest reaction in another, and completely change the context of the communication.
A word said with feelings behind it, like an energetic charge of excitement or love can also trigger like minded reactions.
I have seen/realised and understood how when we ‘clean up’ the words we use - i.e take the emotions and feelings out of them, and use them for communication only life becomes much easier.
I saw today how even typed words can be taken out of context, by the one reading them, I myself have read a message and thought - “what do they mean by that?” - probably nothing, but it’s how wars start. Just saying, will be continuing with this in posts to come. 