As you may know manifesting happy things can be a hard thing to do when you are surrounded by people suffering from (SAS) Sudden Asshole Syndrome.
Here’s an example of what I am talking about.
Let’s say a loving married couple is driving home from the store and out of the blue the husband turns to his wife and says, “I’d rather be dead than to be married to you.”
That is SAS – sudden asshole syndrome.
The wife is devastated.
Maybe she’d been studying positive thinking and trying to manifest good things in her life and with that one statement her husband blows her manifesting work...right out of the water.
But - what was really going on just beneath the surface in that exchange between the two of them?
The conversation between this couple before the negative statement was made was about their money problems.
The husband wanted his wife to get an extra job. She didn’t want to because she was already working three part-time jobs and didn’t want a fourth one.
He was triggered during their conversation to make that unkind statement because he was married twice before, and in his opinion - his first two wives were lazy. He felt as if they were not as helpful to him in his business as he needed them to be ...thereby hurting him financially.
When his present wife said she didn’t want to get another job...it triggered him into an SAS episode
Also...he had just been given a diagnosis by his doctor the previous day that had frightened him, and he hadn’t told his wife.
His fear of death was triggered by that diagnosis, and when he had blurted out that death-statement, it was really coming from a place of his own fear.
His wife was raised by a mother who had worked hard..while her stepdad stayed unemployed and golfed most days.
She didn’t want to work as hard as her mother, or be taken advantage of.
These self-concepts were brewing with the two of them right under the surface of their exchange. They were both triggering each other without even knowing it.
Well – the truth is that the people whom you are the closest too are always mirrors - showing you how our own energy is vibrating.
Like when a cord is plucked on one guitar and another guitar in the same room resonates and plays the same cord without even being touched - so does one person’s fear resonate with and trigger another person’s fear.
If you have a painful shadow belief about yourself hovering and vibrating in your past as a broken-off fragmented part of yourself, this shadow vibration will sporadically cause you to be triggered.
And your wounded children trigger other peoples wounded children, and then you have SOS – Sudden Asshole Syndrome.
You are the only one who knows the truth about yourself, and you will only know it based on going within.
If you have any shadow beliefs that are stifling your manifestation skills or causing you to draw in poor treatment from those around you (SAS) - I highly recommend you work toward reprogramming your subconscious beliefs.