personal experience: Who is angry loses

in #steemchurch6 years ago (edited)

I want to talk about something that is very common for human beings, but at the same time not knowing how to handle causes us many problems and losses. When a person is angry we have been confused in saying that the person has character, but when one reads the word of God one realizes that the character is not that. According to psychologists have raised differences in terms of temperament and character, it is said that with the temperament we are born and the character is formed.


There are four basic temperaments, the choleric, sanguine, melancholic and phlegmatic, God shapes us with a mixture of two or three temperaments. When I was about 20 years old I read a book on the recommendation of Pastor Cash that talks about temperaments, one does an exam and the results determine what temperament one has. I began to read the strengths and advantages that people with my type of temperament have had afterwards there was a description of the disadvantages and threats that people run with my temper if the character of God was not formed. When one does not have the character of God one is made to lose and not to win, our temperament is not enough to win, we must form the character of Christ in us. One of the biggest problems of the human being as far as the temperament is concerned is the anger and the anger, there are people who have not only lost teeth but marriages, relationships, jobs, health for being angry

Nobody likes to get home, find someone upset but with a good plate of food, it is preferable that there is no food but to find someone happy. When God made us he made us to win not to lose, he gave us authority over everything on earth, therefore, God has always prepared something better for us and often for something that we do not know how to dominate within ourselves as the Temperament and anger react in ways that make us lose. When I got married, thank God I had already learned the lesson, and since I do not like to lose I applied the saying "he who gets angry loses" and when I entered the University to study law in a Criminal Law class one of the best techniques that I learned to win a debate is to anger the opposite and we can see the reason in the Bible.

The temperament of Jesus Christ was all, with all the good and without the bad, when we look for someone to imitate we should seek the message of Jesus Christ because it is the message that can change our life, he can do things in our heart that we could not do alone. Santiago sends you to hear the message and put it into practice.

This is a message to put into practice today, it is easy to get angry and controlling is difficult but with the help of God we can become people who stop losing because they get angry.

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we must be imitators of Jesus Christ, personally when situations of care occur I always ask myself, what would Jesus do in this situation?
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