There is power in the unit. The enemy knows it. That is why he is continually fighting against that unity. He takes the differences that are in us, differences that God put to make us stronger, and try to use them to break the bond that unites us. The enemy always tries to deceive us by making us see that between man and woman, one is superior to the other. But I can solve that argument right now. Women are superior to men, if you do not believe that, man tries to have a baby. But also, men are superior to women, if you do not believe that, women try to procreate a baby without men.
It is the combined differences that make us strong. For example, when God, together with the husband and wife, often brings together people who have greater personality differences. Where one is weak, the other is strong, so when they become one, they are more powerful than they were when they were separated. Do not see the differences as negative, meditate on the word and find the positive side and hold on to that side.
There was a time when you did not understand it. I resented having a wife who did not care about some things that I liked. But finally I realized that I knew what I was doing. If He had given me a wife who was as patient as I was, we would have spent the rest of our lives in the clouds, waiting for many things to resolve themselves.
This is what is known as incompatibility of characters something that is ending with marital unions and therefore with families, being the number one cause of divorces and is that couples have not understood, that every difficulty, every circumstance that live, they are alone, the way that God has found to show the weakness that needs to be strengthened to continue facing the life he has given them and that only in this way can they become creditors of the greatest promises God has for the family.
By joining a couple, we can not continue thinking that we will act individually and that it will be the reason of only one that will prevail, we must understand each other, look for the point of convergence that favors us both and use it to achieve our goals. goals, which now must be planned, by both, but as it was one, because the product should have benefits for both or for all those who make up the family.
Do not let breakdowns occur, or differences be identified, because the ones the enemy will use against yourself, and the consequences will be fatal. Are there people in your life who are different from you? Do not let the enemy use those differences to separate them. Thank God for them. Let Him teach you how to appreciate them and how powerful they can be ... Together.
God bless you greatly