I actually enjoy the chaotic order of this place. I'm not sure we should be unified; I think monocultures are dangerous. We can be united in wanting to help Steemit thrive, while we differ in our opinions of how to do that.
Personally, I think spam should be flagged, not just ignored, because it is not benign and it feeds and grows quickly, like a cancer. Of course, it is equally important to engage with other sincere people and grow your account in a healthy way.
There is a lot of spam flagging already going on and there is even a bounty program on it. This site does have a pretty active police force. I think we are policed more than Facebook but the Facebook police targets more freedom of speech whereas ours targets spam.
Hmmm very interesting perspective for sure.