Thank you so much for those two points (complement others and give reason to others to follow you) I would say I am trying when it comes to complementing others because sometimes it just comes out of me naturally but the part that discussed about giving reason to others to follow you, I am really lagging behind because I spend more time with people talking basically about myself , how I achieved certain things, how I plan to do certain things that would be of benefits to me and so on. I can't remember helping others to achieve something that is not directly or indirectly related to me. I would say I have really benefited from this post I am certainly going to apply them not really because I want to increase my influence on other people rather it is because I think it is a good and right thing to do. Stay blessed