What do men want?
What do men want i ask?
Truth is Sex, Food, Money.
Jokes Don’t keep a man.
Popular opinion, right?
I may not exactly be right,
But i say what a man wants is just peace,
Peace of mind!!
Yes as simple as that!!!
Men wants to be understood,
We go through a lot,
A great lot, but the difference is we keep it all to ourselves, not because we like it, but it feels like when its said, peace still wont come.
At that exact time, the ladies, not all though, would also remember there is a problem they are also facing and compare it subconsciously to what you're going through.
Men act strong outside but it doesn’t mean we don’t cry and sure doesn’t mean we are weak.
We are strong outside to comfort you, to be there for you, to give a shoulder to cry on, and to let you know you can go look for trouble out there and come back, cause we got you.
But ladies! give your men room to cry,
give him room to be alone,
give him room to talk and let him own the talk,
give him him,
yes give him his time and attention,
don’t always take it away from him, he needs it. Same way he needs your time as well.
Mans not hot they say,
he shivers,
be the hood he puts on.
I ask again, what do men want?
Stay tuned for a continuation.
Dr Jide Oyegbile JBlaze (@itsjblaze)
True words, we men need time to be human, society often treat us as though we don't have a soul that breaks
Honestly bruv. Its disheartening. We are human also. They need to know that.
Yeah sure they do, it's social conditioning that has restricted men to show their brokeness while they find solace in other negative things