Hi Evangelistjotham,
love is a gift from god. We can enjoy or abuse it.
I don't agree in every point of view, but I really agree, that everything we do, we should do with god and not trying to do something secretely.
I'm now married 20 years with my wife and I wrote an article about that this morning:

Best wishes to you too,
Achim https://steemit.com/love/@achimmertens/the-secret-of-20-years-marriage