This is some word here... Be happy with yourself first before finding that of others.... What if in the case where our happiness is found in helping that of others?.... yeah, I get your point but just thinking about this scenario.
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Well in the case where you derive happiness in helping others. Make sure you do that without hurting yourself. Humans can be so many things and there's a limit to how much one can go to help them.