The First Step At Handling Infidelity In A Relationship Is To Not To Have A Faithful Partner.
Most of the issues that concern relationships and marriages are a result of trust issues. Most times I wonder how a person will go into a relationship with someone you do not trust. Trust us the backbone of every relationship and marriage. Outside this, marriage and relationships will be in disarray. The greatest percentage of issues in relationships today is because one partner suspects the other of Infidelity. This is why, one can not leave the other to another place in search of opportunities without one of them or both misbehaving. There are lots of cases where relationships and marriages hit the rock because they were far away from each other.
The issue of partners staying away from each other and as a result the relationship develops fault is based on individual differences. Some relationships can still be stronger than when they were nearby. People are just different. For me, I think that partners should not be far away from each other for too long a time. It is a fact that people fall in love as a result of frequent seeing and meeting. The body tends to develop feelings and likeness to a person who's always seen and available. The person you talk with often and do things together. Therefore to avoid the temptation of a partner developing feelings for another person who's not your partner but they're closer. They should avoid staying apart for too long.
I remember some years ago, I was in another state for a job. I had a girlfriend at home but while I spent time in my new environment I started communicating with another girl and in a few months we started developing fondness for each other one thing led to another and we started dating. As a result of this, my relationship at home began to have issues and unfortunately, it ended. This is likely applicable to many other relationships. Whenever you're far away from your partner, there's every tendency for them to cheat. This happens not because they're bad people but because it's just a natural disposition.
Most times, people won't cheat because they have no reason to do so, but in case the body needs to be touched, talked to, and cuddled, they go out to look for these. If the need was readily available then such people won't have reasons to do so. People cheat because we gave them the chance to do so which wouldn't have occurred in a normal situation. Beyond having a faithful partner in a relationship, have what it takes to make your partner not have reasons to look elsewhere and it begins with being always available and not too far away. I have seen a naturally faithful partner turn out to be a cheat. This is a situational issue that could have been avoided. The way you treat your partner has a long way of developing a new character in them.
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I sincerely don't suppose long distance relationship, but if the both partners love themselves and they are okay with it and promise themselves not to leave eachother or cheat, then it's make's more sense.
The one thing that is very important in a relationship is communication.
Wow, so would you classify what you did as cheating?
Because you said you had a girlfriend at home and you still went ahead to be another person in another state.
I'm still trying to process it 😂
But on the other hand, he's kinda right, maybe he lost feelings for his girlfriend because he wasn't seeing her often and I guess the feeling was fading away, and someone else came into the picture and took her space.
Mmm, let’s process it together 😂
Hahahah