DRESS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE ADDRESSED

Hello friends. Its been a long time here. Happy new year to everyone. So A friend of mine came to visit me with his fiancé and after a while, I and my friend got talking about old days on how we use to rock and roll, so my friend start talking on how he used to love girls who dress sedutively in short skirt, open shirt and all not knowing that her fiancé has been eavesdropping to our conversation.

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Meanwhile she didn't know we were just talking about old days. So the next day, her fiancé when for a shopping to buy short wears since she heard it from the horse mouth about what he likes, she on the other hand wish to impress her man at all cost not even knowing that her man has equally changed from thaf old ways. She got to a bus stop to get a bike cos taxi are very rare to find around her area.

Meanwhile I didn't tell you this, this lady is in her final year in school and also practicing medicine. So as she got out from her hostel to the bus stop, she was been addressed by tout and meat seller calling her with so much disrespect just because of the way she dressed, she look just like a certified prostitute. She was so embarrassed on this faithful day that she couldn't bear the insult.

Finally she got to her fiancée house who promised to also take her on a date that day, her fiancée looked at her from head to toes and ask if she has joined the road side prostitute cos he doesn't understand why she would dress like this.
She then explained to him on how she heard him talking to me about how he love women in short. He burst into laughter and then told her that was in his past, and what she heard was just and old days gist. She then apologise and he told her not to ever dress that way again.

How are you also addressed anywhere u go or find yourself, its not just about cloth alone, some are addressed by their manner of approach, many has no manner when it comes to speech, and people around them will never accord them their respect, some are addressed by their attitudes and behaviour, if you have bad character or attitude, you can never earn respect from the people in your community.

There are so many ways in which people can address you but its left to you if you want them to honour yoy with the respect you deserved. Everything we do in life matters alot, so just watchout for every step or move you take in life so as to be respected the way you want.
Note: How you dress is the same way you will be addressed. Thank you.

I am @Eniola1990