My Inspo(s) // Love Lives Here!

<hr /> <hr /> <div class="text-justify"> <p dir="auto">Wow! I needed an inspo for the weekend and guess what? I got six amazing people for the entry. I must say, I didn't expect this number, maybe 1 or 2 persons was all I had in mind, but I got 6 and that's a lot 😂💔 but all the same, you will get to hear about them cause why not? I am already excited to tell you guys. <hr /> <hr /> <hr /> <h1>My Weekend Inspo(s) <p dir="auto"><img src="https://images.hive.blog/768x0/https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/zellypearl/23tGZbv7BhT5JtNESCprAJms4VxpS5FWp6ZVKZCrtW6oX7pGSYMAekqre5dMLePZaJkZq.jpg" alt="1000526010.jpg" srcset="https://images.hive.blog/768x0/https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/zellypearl/23tGZbv7BhT5JtNESCprAJms4VxpS5FWp6ZVKZCrtW6oX7pGSYMAekqre5dMLePZaJkZq.jpg 1x, https://images.hive.blog/1536x0/https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/zellypearl/23tGZbv7BhT5JtNESCprAJms4VxpS5FWp6ZVKZCrtW6oX7pGSYMAekqre5dMLePZaJkZq.jpg 2x" /> <hr /> <hr /> <p dir="auto"><strong>Number 1<br /> For my first entry, I would that If one lives on someone's status, it would be him lol. It's a privilege to begin this with you. When speaking of kind, attentive, loving and intentional friend, I give you the most credit. How we became close still remains a mystery but you've been nothing short of amazing. <p dir="auto">Here is a friend blessed with the ability to know when you are angry, sad, withdrawn and reserved and he would stop at nothing to know what the issue is and if he could help in anyway.<br /> For a good number of times I have pushed him away with my nonchalant attitude, yet he doesn't give up trying to maintain our friendship even at a distance. <p dir="auto">I don't give people lame credit when they don't deserve it but you see this one here, he is an intentional friend.<br /> Sometimes I call him <strong><em>The Finished One because I feel it's only a finished and intentional man that would do all the things he does or would give such maximum attention, concern and input in one's life.<br /> <em>Dear finished friend, Our paths crossed in an unexpected way, and finding genuine friendship in you is something I never expected as well, so I don't take it for granted.<br /> Thank you for proving to me that we still have few good ones out there, well mannered and exceptional to the core. <hr /> <hr /> <p dir="auto"><strong>Number 2<br /> When counting the gift of men, I double the number with her.<br /> Here is my female human diary, the story is quite long with her but I don't get tired of telling this tale over and over again.<br /> 8 years is no freaking beans 😂 and to think we are still here, still counting our blessings and losses, crying and laughing together, ranting and venting to each other. <p dir="auto">8 years ago, I met a friend and sister, she became my backbone and confidant.<br /> One wrong move or decision I want to make, I run to her and stylishly get her input on it lol.<br /> Most times I know the answer before she even gives it but I still go to her.<br /> This one here has gone through hell and back, but it doesn't make her love people less, it doesn't stop her from lending a hand where and when she can<br /> If selflessness was a person, I would give it to my friend. At times I am angry about the length at which she goes to help people who don't even deserve her help. And most times I have to talk some sense into her so as not to be used by humans but you see, this is who she is.<br /> She can inconvenience herself just to be of help to another although over the years I think she has learnt her lessons. <p dir="auto"><em>Dearest Evelyn, I've seen you at your best and at your lowest and I earnestly pray that life gives you a little bit of break and go easy on you.<br /> You are strong, I don't think I can endure half of the things you've experienced in life, you are resilient and you are able.<br /> Trust me you deserve a happy ending and I pray it comes to you sooner.<br /> Thank you for being there and always being here. <hr /> <hr /> <p dir="auto"><strong>Number 3<br /> I didn't expect to get a YES from this very individual lol. I mean knowing his kind of person, there was no way I had looked forward to it.<br /> Yet he surprised me, and well, I mean let's do this shall we? 🥲<br /> You see, I've only known you for a few months and I can't say much about you cause I am still yet to know a lot about you.<br /> I used to think I was petty y'all, but this one is the master of it all, I give him his crown and badge with my full chest.<br /> You know when someone reciprocates the energy you give out, phewww, I'm lost for words. <p dir="auto">Here's a friend difficult to understand and comprehend, quiet and reserved with a touch of gentlemanness.<br /> A friend who would walk into a room and his fragrance would greet you first. (Do you guys even know how crazy I am about people that smells nice? 🥺🥺😩<br /> I still remember vividly our first meeting, and how you walked up to me to exchange words and the look on their faces, like <em>(not the new girl) 😒 😂💔 with one even trying to mark her territory, trust me that was funny to see lol. <p dir="auto">And from my heart to yours, I believe you are more than you let people see, you are the way you are for a reason unknown to me.<br /> I am only limited to the few things I know about you and I hope you do better.<br /> Thanks for coming into my life and stealing the pettiness crown from me and a little bit of something else. You own it now lol. <hr /> <hr /> <p dir="auto"><strong>Number 4<br /> I would try to make this one short, becaussssssssseeee.....forget it lol<br /> Friends that are concerned about your financial backing? Forget it.<br /> I am just giving you the headlines 😂😀<br /> I disqualified her from this challenge because what manner of reply was that I got from her? But well well, she did say yes, write about me in a ridiculous way 😒<br /> You see X? Formerly known as Twitter? For no good reason, I disliked the space, there was nothing fun about that place to me.<br /> A few years ago that narrative changed, I started utilizing the space for it's good use and I found myself obsessed and addicted too lol.<br /> I had a good number of connections there but it stayed on X and didn't cross over anywhere.<br /> Not until I met this human, that came with camouflage, don't even ask me what that means lol. We got talking, with me learning more about her and vice versa.<br /> She disturbed my life eh, in a good way though 😭 😭 <p dir="auto">She is that friend that would see something worth doing and fill you in on it, not just that, she would guide you through the entire process and not leave you hanging.<br /> I know how many times she had forced me, almost beating me up to do a thing that ended up giving me a few bucks.<br /> If we speak of another intentional friend? I will give it to her as well.<br /> With all my rubbish attitude and character exhibited, she didn't give up on me, always pushing me to learn, unlearn and relearn.<br /> Do I need mention the times she would pay for a thing for me without my knowledge, gosh those gestures and act of kindness means the world to me.<br /> <em>"Send your wallet address, send your account details" you see this statement? you will likely always find it with her.<br /> And if generosity was a person, please I give it all to her, she is a giver Kai...🥺😩<br /> Every time I see that statement of <em>"it's not about how long you've known a person...", she comes into my mind first. <p dir="auto">This girl has done the most for me in such a short period of knowing ourselves.<br /> <em>My beloved Sandra, I know I've been a pain in the ass, my bad! 😒😀🤪<br /> I appreciate you, I appreciate all you've been to me, for every act of love and kindness, they don't go unnoticed neither taken for granted.<br /> Thanks for holding my hands most of the times and showing me how much you care. <hr /> <hr /> <p dir="auto"><strong>Number 5<br /> I got a Yes from my colleague too.<br /> School Field Trip brought us together and I must say she is a fun person.<br /> You can only know one or two about a person at close range and not what you see from a distance.<br /> I used to think she wasn't this kind of person that accomodate others, but I was wrong.<br /> She is very welcoming and free spirited. I learned this doing that trip we had in school.<br /> She was always looking out for us while we were there in the hotel we lodged, during breakfast and dinnertime and in field works too.<br /> At some point I was baffled, because we really didn't have a close relationship in school for her to go to that extent for us.<br /> My experience with her made me appreciate the more the saying, <em>never judge a book by its cover.<br /> <em>Dear UD, I like how you carry yourself in school, how you mind your business in a respectful and mature manner, keep it up. <hr /> <hr /> <p dir="auto"><strong>Number 6<br /> Yay! We are finally here.<br /> When they say <em><strong>saving the best for the last I would rather say, <em><strong>the best came the last<br /> Where do I begin? It's been 4 years already 🥺<br /> 4 years with a lot of happenings in our lives.<br /> Here is my GPA! The very man that has babied me from Inception lol.<br /> He was and is my male human diary, my amebo partner to the core lol.<br /> I will go to this one panicking about every situation in my life and he will always come up with a calming pills for me. <p dir="auto">A good number of times I told him about being afraid of a few papers I didn't feel I wrote so well, the response is always <em>Waky I know you are smart, and trust me you will do well, and if it doesn't come out very good, you can always do better next time, and viola the result never disappoints.<br /> The very first time we met, he said I was 12 years old, like how? From where to where? 😂😭<br /> He has this 99.9% respect for ladies and I must say, I admire that the most about him.<br /> GPA has been nothing short of amazing, I know how many times I've messed up, how many times I've wrong him in undeniable ways but he forgives still and gives me a chance to work on myself to be better.<br /> He is very forgiving not just to me but to as many that has wronged him in one way or the other. He always gives people that benefit of doubt, another chance to change their ways and be a better version of themselves.<br /> He is not only smart, but wise enough to handle every task and responsibility with care. <p dir="auto">In him I found a friend, a confidant, my human diary and even a daddy figure lol.<br /> <em>Dearest GPA, without any reasonable doubt, you own a special place in my heart.<br /> Thank you for looking past my stubbornness and all the piled up wrongs and showering me with love still amd concern.<br /> For not writing me off and always being there to lend me a listening ears whenever I want to rant and complain about my life and thanks for reminding some days too that I am loved, appreciated and that I am enough.<br /> For every time you believed in me and assured me that I would do just fine, thank you, they meant alot to me<br /> And thanks for being there from Inception to guide a teenage girl that was just growing and evolving 🥹🥲 <hr /> <hr /> <hr /> <p dir="auto"><sup><em>To everyone here who I have responded to, I want to say thank you for sparking up my weekend and for accepting to be my inspo for the weekend.<br /> It was fun and exciting writing about you guys, with every single memories flashback I had while doing this that I can't write them all out.<br /> It was worth my time, it really was.<br /> And then again I will say, I am forever grateful for the gift of men.<br /> Alot hasn't been said of you guys and about you guys, but in my heart, you all have a special room and I pray that life favours every one of you, Amen.<br /> To my readers, I hope you all had a blissful, less stressful and memory filled weekend. <p dir="auto"><sup><strong><em>PS: Screenshot gotten from my wall <hr /> <hr /> <h1><div class="text-center"> <em>𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫 <div class="text-center"> <p dir="auto"><sup> <em>𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐖𝐚𝐤𝐲! 𝐀 𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢-𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐳𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐫.<br /> 𝐀 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐝𝐝𝐬.<br /> 𝐈 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐞𝐱𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐲 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡 𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐞 "𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞".<br /> 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐲 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐝𝐲𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐜 𝐰𝐚𝐲<br /> 𝐇𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐏𝐀𝐂𝐄<br /> 𝐈'𝐦 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠.<br /> 𝐈𝐭'𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐚 𝐛𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐞? <pre><code> 10 November ~ Sunday