LOL with those requirements, there are a lot of people who are too far gone and can't be helped. I think its all about what you value if you value marriage or a car then, by all means, go for it but don't complain about the downside of your decisions then, that was your decision so take personal responsibility

I do try to rid myself of the BS, live as minimal as possible, save and try to read as much and lean as much as I can and to be prepared for anything too