Finding My Own Time to Celebrate

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This is a publication based on the suggested topic proposed in the Hive Learners community through their discord, which on this occasion is "When Does Your Holiday End?".

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<< Steve Jobs >>




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Welcome, my very appreciated readers of Hive.

Today, the topic to discuss on my blog is when my party or my festive days end.

Talking about this topic directly implies that the person has festive days, and in my case, it is so, but my festive days are not generally guided or carried out by the dates and traditions most people in the world follow.

This is because I have been an independent worker for many years. I decided around the year 2000, after having many work experiences, working with military personnel, high-ranking officers, working in private companies as a computer analyst, handling payrolls for workers and civilians, and learning a bit of administration while working with the military, and handling confidential documents.

From all those work experiences, I learned to see when, for example, during the Christmas holidays in these jobs, they forced the staff to attend certain events or meetings, and many times, one was not in the mood to attend a work meeting on December 24 because, evidently, one wanted to be at home and not celebrating.

Or, there were no reasons to celebrate at those times because many people have relatives who have died on those dates or have had accidents, reminding them of a bad time. And imagine, forcing someone to celebrate that date is not correct, it is not right.

It happened to me, and I had to live through it, attending those meetings and celebrations when I was not in the mood, not in the right place, as they say, to celebrate these activities.

I can say that I celebrate Christmas whenever I feel like it.

This year, for example, I felt like celebrating it big, and fortunately, I had the sponsorship of two good friends.


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A friend I know virtually for a long time, who got in touch with me recently and told me that Santa had passed by his tree and left a gift for me.

He left me a nice gift, which allowed me to celebrate these holidays more openly and enjoy some traditional dishes that I otherwise could not have.

If I hadn't had that contribution, I would have simply spent it like last year, unable to enjoy even a single traditional dish because my finances didn't allow it.

Fortunately, this year, thanks to him and another very good friend whom I mentioned in another post, not only was I able to enjoy one, but eight times that dish.

This means that I even have my Christmas dish guaranteed for New Year's Eve, my New Year's dish guaranteed with ham bread. And so, this will be my celebration for that day, for which I am very happy.

On these dates, since I have to work creating content, I sometimes try to do and advance work for two or three days in one day.

So today, for example, Monday, I decided to create two or three posts for the week, so I can be or find myself a bit more relaxed.

In fact, this post is the second one I am doing today, and I will proceed, after finishing this content, to create another one for the next year, which I have to.

This is to have the time I need to have the recreational space and feel good about myself and to escape from my routine. So this is how I celebrate my Christmas.


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On these days, and for example, for the end of the year, which is tomorrow, I work all day today because I know that tomorrow I will have free time to watch TV, check posts, relax without worrying about monitoring posts or comments I need to make and all that.

This way, I believe I efficiently use my time and return to my routine two or three days later.

So I can say that in my case, it works this way. I know that many other people who work and have their activities or vacation days already established, dedicate this time to relax and have a good time with loved ones.

Normally, in all these companies, what is customary is that by January 15, after the first two weeks of January, all trades and commercial activities resume.

But that is in the case of people who work for companies or large corporations. In my case, as an independent worker, it is very different.

I work 365 days a year and have the advantage of taking my holidays and celebrations whenever I decide.

But believe me, although it seems very good and positive, and I love it that way, it doesn't give you the security of having a fixed income, a fixed salary, and guaranteed holidays.

That's the big difference, not having the security to decide when you want to take your vacations without any supervision from a boss or an external entity forcing you to return to work or to work or stop working when you don't want to.

That's the big difference.



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Working for yourself has both advantages and disadvantages, one of which is that you can celebrate Christmas in March, for example. Disadvantages, I'm sure the lack of financial security is one of them. At least for me.

And I'm glad to hear that Santa Claus stopped by your house, you deserve it.

A big hug @manclar.

 7 days ago (edited) 

Todavía hoy en día no estoy seguro de si las "ventajas" que obtengo por ser freelancer, compensas las "desventajas" que vienen con todo esto. Creo que el precio que pago por esas ventajas es bastante alto : estar irritable, cansado, y responder de mala forma a quienes no se lo merecen (pero es que también parece que no toman en cuenta que uno esta hecho mierda, que no hay ganas de comentar, interactuar o conversar (esto no lo digo por ti, aunque a veces me invade el sentimiento de culpa de ser mala persona por no hacer un comentario mas largo...pero a costo de que?, de saber que me voy a cansar mas y no voy a poder conciliar el sueño?, con frecuencia esto me ocurre), y la gente pareciera que es una cosa del diablo, porque precisamente cuando me siento así de mal, es que mas conversación me sacan y mas quieren que yo les hable o les explique algo...

En fin, que con frecuencia me debo esforzar mucho mas, para atender también este tipo de situaciones que me desgasta, y se han convertido en una molestia mas de mi vida, logrando que me amargue y me quiera alejar mas y mas de la gente.

Esta conversación es entre tu y yo, no voy a responderle a ningún metiche que tenga el atrevimiento de meter sus narices aquí.

Y bueno este santa claus que apareció, es completamente anónimo, se manifiesta de vez en cuando, en esta ocasión dejo 100 dolares debajo de mi árbol. Lo triste de todo eso es que ya casi lo consumí todo, en alimentos, pagar cuentas y poder costearme la cena de navidad y la de mañana que es año nuevo. Me queda un poco como $30 dolares que creo que voy a tenerlos que gastar en un pote de analgesicos que debo comprar para poder soportar el dolor de muelas que tengo (Caries y no quiero ni tengo como ir a un odontologo, de los gratuitos no voy a ir, a que me maten, ya sabes lo que opino de la medicina gratuita aquí en Venezuela, apesta).

En fin , que esto no es vida, es supervivencia, y que esto apesta, me desagrada, me descompone y me pone furioso. Creo que me entiendes.

Vida es yo sentirme bien, salir de casa e irme a practicar tocar flauta en los alrededores del museo de bellas artes, y este es solo uno de tantos ejemplos que se me ocurren, y que no puedo lograr, por la lamentable situacion del pais y la personal...


Even today I'm not sure if the "advantages" I get from being a freelancer outweigh the "disadvantages" that come with all of this. I think that the price I pay for these advantages is quite high: being irritable, tired, and responding badly to those who do not deserve it (but it also seems that they do not take into account that one is screwed, that there is no desire to comment, interact or chat (I'm not saying this for you, although sometimes the feeling of guilt of being a bad person for not making a longer comment invades me... but at the cost of what?, of knowing that I'm going to get more tired and I won't be able to fall asleep? This is often happens to me), and people think it's something from the devil, because precisely when I feel this bad, they get more conversation out of me and the more they want me to talk to them or explain something to them...

In short, I often have to try much harder to also deal with these types of situations that wear me down, and have become another annoyance in my life, making me bitter and wanting to distance myself more and more from people.

This conversation is between you and me, I am not going to respond to any nosy person who has the audacity to stick their nose in here.

And well, this Santa Claus who appeared is completely anonymous, he appears from time to time, on this occasion he left 100 dollars under my tree. The sad thing about all of this is that I have almost consumed everything, in food, paying bills and being able to afford Christmas dinner and tomorrow's dinner, which is New Year's. I have a little like $30 dollars left that I think I'm going to have to spend on a bottle of painkillers that I have to buy to be able to withstand the toothache I have (cavities and I don't want or have a way to go to a dentist, I don't go to the free ones) to go, to get killed, you know what I think about free medicine here in Venezuela, it stinks).

Life is me feeling good, leaving the house and going to practice playing the flute around the museum of fine arts, and this is just one of many examples that come to mind, and that I cannot achieve, due to the unfortunate situation of the country and my own situation...

No se puede dudar de qu etrabajas en malas condiciones, y lo digo aquí, Hive, o lo que sea,o quién sea es muy injusto con tu talento y con tu trabajo. Dejado esto claro, estoy seguro de que te pasa como a mí, no podemos trabajar para otros, ni debajo de otros. No digo que sea una mala elección trabajar a sueldo para otros, simplemente llevamos muchos años sin jefe y volver al redil, creo que ya no es posible. Estamos asilvestrados.

Todo tiene un precio. Disfruta y céntrate en lo que has logrado con tu esfuerzo y sin tener que dar gracias a nadie.

Sobre ese Papá Noel, le deso lo mejor para el próximo año. Y a tí también @manclar.

Un abrazo muy grande.

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 7 days ago  

Y lo de trabajar para otros, sea un individual o una empresa, no lo vuelvo a hacer de nuevo, no en esta vida, porque como dices, ya he regresado a mi selva,y si me ponen a cargo de un jefe, no voy a trabajar, y probablemente termine conspirando en contra de la organización.


And working for others, be it an individual or a company, I will not do it again, not in this life, because as you say, I have already returned to my jungle, and if they put me in charge of a boss, I will not to work, and will probably end up plotting against the organization.

Me sumo a ese sentimiento. Abrazo @manclar.

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