Having Self-esteem makes you know your worth, gives you courage and no one will able to underestimate you in public, The way you live your life determines the way people will always approach you, some people call it pride but I call it self-esteem, codes that I can never lose is my SELF-ESTEEM.
People tend to take advantage of you if you are too loose to them, I love to always stay on my lane if my attention is never needed in a place, and I love to always put myself first and above anything, most people always think it is a bad habit but it is the way I market myself to people.
I am someone who sets standards for myself both at work and home, I will never interfere in what doesn't concern me, I am a reserved person and nothing will ever change that about me, I love my space and always choose peace to reign, not that I am weak but I am someone who always avoids trouble in one way or the other.
Last week a colleague of mine called me and said why are you always quiet, I told her that is who I am, I am not always quiet when I see someone who I can talk to or vibe with but talking too much is never a thing for me, I love to always mind my business.
One thing I detest most is when someone should talk to me anyhow or find me where they are gossiping, I hate when someone looks down on me or disrespectfully talks to me, and that is why I love to avoid all these habits before it will come, I love my distance and that is why I don't make friends.
People always think that I do not like to associate myself with others and they see me as someone who feels pompous but that isn't the case, I love my peace of mind and my self-esteem is above all that.
There was a scenario that happened in my workplace some years back, this case made our managing director relieve some people of the job then, I wasn't at work on the day when they gossiped about the MD, and one of them later leaked the secret to the MD all in the name of seeking favor from him, all the staffs were summoned the next day, and everyone was saying what happened, the MD asked me to leave because if I wasn't at work and he mentioned one statement that even if you are at work you can never be a party to this, most people know me for who I am and I believe that it what standard should always be about.
There are so many attributes attached to self-esteem, part of them are peace of mind, happiness, courage, and reserved, nothing can change this code from me, I love to be mindful and focused, and this code has made me stand out among my colleagues at work and in my church, I'm not a shy person at all, I love to interact with others when my opinion is needed but apart from that I am always on my lane.
Having Self-esteem made me value myself and this assures me that no matter what the situation may be, I will never undermine myself.
A CODE I LIVE BYThis is my response to this episode of hivelearners community prompt of #hl-w137e2 which the topic is tagged
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Having security and confidence in what you do is always a very valuable principle. I am someone who is very peaceful and calm. I value my peace a lot and that is one of my fundamental values. When someone does not respect them, I immediately put that person on my list. who I don't like dealing with, and I try as much as possible to stay away from those people as much as possible and not interact with them. That has helped me a lot in life.
Note: I like your huge tendrils in your photo. A hug for you.
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Having good self-esteem is essential for our mental health. Without a doubt, it is easier to face the world this way, especially when there are people who wish us harm. Great text!