Hola queridos amigos blogueros, hace mucho que quería escribir este relato, basado en hechos reales, no recuerdo todos los detalles pero les hice lo mas parecido a la historia real, espero les guste:
Un día normal en la universidad, Lila llegó, se alineó en la fila para poner su mano en el escáner de huellas y poder subir a clases, al principio se sintió observada pero ignoró esa sensación y empezó a subir las escaleras hasta el 3er piso, allí fue hasta su aula de clases, su grupo de amigas ya le esperaban y presentía que algo pasaría.
Se sentó entre los primeros asientos del frente, y notó que el profesor aun no llegaba, pero en ese momento, escuchó sus pasos y lo vio acercarse a su escritorio, y la clase transcurrió normal, cuando salieron a desayunar, una de sus amigas se acerca con algo en sus manos, un sobre.
Aquello le extraño, pero pensó que era una broma o algo de sus pesadas amigas.
—Me pidieron darte esto, Lil —le miró extrañada y confundida— De tu admirador secreto.
Miró el sobre en sus manos y enarcó su ceja, en señal de sarcasmo y burla. —No es gracioso, dejen de bromear con tal cosa.
Lila era escritora y siempre le gustaron ese tipo de detalles. Sus amigas le buscaban novio a como dé lugar, les encantaba hacer de cupidos o casamenteras. –¿Y que voy a hacer con ello?
—Leerlo, Lila —dijo con sarcasmo su amiga Catrina— Yo le llevare la respuesta que des a tu admirador secreto —se rio.
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—Como quieras —rodó los ojos y se alejó caminando, en esos momentos no quería ni tenerle cerca y que le molestara con dicho admirador.
Solo de pensarlo, a Lila le molestaba, porque sospechaba quien era el famoso “admirador secreto”, demasiado obvio era el chico en cuestión.
Compró desayuno en el cafetín y se fue a sentar sola en bulevar y empezó a leer:
“Querida Lila:
Cuando te veo no puedo dejar de estar maravillado con tu forma de ser, con tus ojos, tu sonrisa, y me hace cohibir con solo verte. Tanto que no he tenido el valor de hablarte, por eso mandé esto con un parajito mensajero jaja, eres tan hermosa como el sol de las mañanas y tan inteligente.
Me gustaría que me dieras una oportunidad de invitarte a salir.
Con cariño, tu admirador”.
Lila se rio en voz alta, por lo absurdo y pensó en ni dar una respuesta, y así se lo dijo a sus amigas apenas les vio pero todas le atacaron.
—¡Que mala eres, Lila! —expresó su amiga más cercana.
Luego Catrina vocifero molesta—: ¡Quien te entiende a ti! Siempre hablas de querer un amor a la antigua, un romance así y ahora vas a hacer esto a ese chico.
—No seas mala, al menos responde —Le dijo su otra amiga.
—Bueno —alargó la palabra—. Le responderé.
Puso los ojos en blanco, el resto del día le dejaron tranquila. Esa noche escribió en un papel: “Hola admirador secreto. Esta es la respuesta que tengo para ti: No estoy interesada, gracias por los halagos pero debo ser sincera y no hacerte esperar algo que jamás pasará. Lo siento”.
Al día siguiente le entregó a su amiga Catrina, y esta desapareció para entregar. Días después le atacaron sus amigas nuevamente y con más dureza.
—Le rompiste el corazón al pobre chico.
—¿Por qué no podías darle una oportunidad?
—Tienes un duro y frío corazón. Lo vas a pagar.
Lila levantó las manos y las detuvo al instante. —¡Basta! Las amo, son mis amigas pero no tienen ningún derecho a decidir o criticar mis decisiones ¿Queda claro? —estaba muy enojada.
Todas le miraron sorprendidas y no dijeron nada, mientras Lila se levantaba y se iba de ahí, justo se tropezó con el “admirador secreto” y este la miró con tristeza, ella solo lo saludó y se fue.
Y se fue reflexionando, de que estaban en un mundo donde todos se creen con derecho de elegir y decidir o criticar tus decisiones, como si no puedes elegir por ti misma. Sacudió la cabeza y se fue a su apartamento, pensando que ser tan exigente no siempre era bueno, pero no saldría o ser conformaría con cualquier persona, ella tenía su lista y en su corazón no entraba cualquier pretendiente.
Esta historia es para reflexionar, y quizás entender que vivimos en un mundo, donde todos juzgan tus acciones y quieren elegir por ti, pero no es así, y esto pasa por la falta de empatía, todos tenemos derecho de decidir, elegir o rechazar algo que no creemos bueno para nosotros, claro con el mayor tacto posible. Sin lastimar a otros. Durante toda mi vida, siempre tuve amigas dominantes, autoritarias o matriarcales, que querían decidir que era lo mejor para mi vida, sin escucharme a mí, por eso, con nuestros amigos, hijos, hermanos... no lo hagamos, podemos aconsejar y guiar, pero no podemos elegir por ellos, porque quienes van a vivir con las consecuencias o esa vida, son ellos. Así que mas amor y comprensión. Seamos felices y dejemos ser felices a otros.
Espero les haya gustado, gracias por leer, votar y me encantaría leer sus opiniones.
Hello dear blogger friends, I have wanted to write this story for a long time, based on real events, I don't remember all the details but I did the closest thing to the real story, I hope you like it:.
A normal day at the university, Lila arrived, she lined up in line to put her hand in the fingerprint scanner to go up to class, at first she felt watched but she ignored that feeling and began to climb the stairs to the 3rd floor, there she went to her classroom, her group of friends were already waiting for her and she had a feeling that something was going to happen.
She sat among the first seats in the front, and noticed that the teacher had not yet arrived, but at that moment, she heard his footsteps and saw him approaching his desk, and the class went normally, when they went out for breakfast, one of her friends approached her with something in her hands, an envelope.
That was strange to her, but she thought it was a joke or something from her heavy friends.
-They asked me to give this to you, Lil," she looked at him, puzzled and confused, "From your secret admirer.
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She looked at the envelope in her hands and raised her eyebrow in sarcasm and mockery. -It's not funny, stop joking about such a thing.
Lila was a writer and always liked that kind of detail. Her friends would find her a boyfriend no matter what, they loved to play the role of cupids or matchmakers. -And what am I going to do with it?
-Read it, Lila," said her friend Catrina sarcastically, "I'll take the answer you give to your secret admirer," she laughed.
-As you wish," she rolled her eyes and walked away, at that moment she didn't even want to have him around and be bothered by said admirer.
Just thinking about it, it bothered Lila, because she suspected who the famous "secret admirer" was, too obvious was the boy in question.
She bought breakfast at the coffee shop and went to sit alone on boulevard and started reading:
"Dear Lila:
When I see you I can't help but be in awe of the way you are, your eyes, your smile, and it makes me self-conscious just to look at you. So much so that I haven't had the courage to talk to you, that's why I sent this with a messenger parajito haha, you are as beautiful as the morning sun and so intelligent.
I wish you would give me a chance to ask you out.
Love, your fan."
Lila laughed out loud, at the absurdity and thought about not even giving an answer, and so she told her friends as soon as she saw them but they all attacked her.
-How mean you are, Lila! -said her closest friend.
Then Catrina shouted in annoyance: "Who understands you! You always talk about wanting an old-fashioned love, a romance like that, and now you're going to do this to that boy.
-Don't be mean, at least answer," her other friend told her.
-Well," she stretched out the word. I'll answer him.
She rolled her eyes, the rest of the day she was left alone. That night she wrote on a piece of paper, "Hello secret admirer. This is the answer I have for you: I'm not interested, thanks for the compliments but I must be honest and not make you expect something that will never happen. I'm sorry."
The next day she delivered to her friend Catrina, and Catrina disappeared to deliver. Days later her friends attacked her again and more harshly.
-You broke the poor boy's heart.
-Why couldn't you give him a chance?
-You have a hard, cold heart. You're going to pay for it.
Lila raised her hands and stopped them instantly. -Stop it! I love them, they are my friends but they have no right to decide or criticize my decisions, is that clear? -She was very angry.
They all looked at her surprised and said nothing, while Lila got up and left, she just bumped into the "secret admirer" and he looked at her sadly, she just waved and left.
And she left reflecting, that they were in a world where everyone thinks they have the right to choose and decide or criticize your decisions, as if you can't choose for yourself. She shook her head and went to her apartment, thinking that being so demanding was not always good, but she would not go out or settle for just anyone, she had her list and not just any suitor would fit in her heart.
This story is to reflect, and perhaps understand that we live in a world, where everyone judges your actions and want to choose for you, but it is not so, and this happens because of the lack of empathy, we all have the right to decide, choose or reject something that we do not think is good for us, of course with the greatest possible tact. Without hurting others. Throughout my life, I always had dominant, authoritarian or matriarchal friends, who wanted to decide what was best for my life, without listening to me, so with our friends, children, siblings... let's not do it, we can advise and guide, but we cannot choose for them, because those who will live with the consequences or that life, are them. So more love and understanding. Let's be happy and let others be happy.
I hope you liked it, thanks for reading, voting and I would love to read your opinions.
Excelente reflexión, comparto tu perspectiva. Vivimos en una sociedad donde los otros juzgan tus decisiones para manipularte y ser ellos los que elijan el rumbo de tu vida, a veces, dan consejos que ni ellos mismos son capaces de seguir. Cada persona es libre y puede reflexionar sobre lo que es conveniente para ella. Fue un gusto pasar por aquí. Saludos.
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