The qualities definitely define us, as well as our flaws and weaknesses, but this time we will talk about how beautiful we are on the inside and what ultimately makes us shine on the outside. Talking about our qualities is something very positive that emphasizes our self-esteem and helps us to value ourselves. Recognizing ourselves is an act of self-love that is also reflected in our relationship with our environment.
Talking about our qualities is not about arrogance or a modesty that hides a presumption, on the contrary, qualities define us in the best way for our well-being and in our walk through life, in serving others. My friends once told me “you are enthusiastic”, or “very empathetic”. When my relationship ended, my friend told me “after all, she missed having a person like you”, it is not arrogance, but recognizing some of my qualities, she told me that, it sounded so nice at the time....
I am Positive, it is a quality that I apply in my life and I also transmit it to others. Maybe it's because I don't give up so easily, I try to look for the positive side of things and my motto is “yes you can” without falling into “unrealistic or impossible things”. You also have to know when to stop insisting on something that will not be fruitful, you have to know how to discern when you should or should not invest efforts. It is very likely that things will not work out the first time and that does not mean you should stop trying. It has happened to me, I look for ways to achieve my goals and objectives (as long as no one is harmed or run over), if one door closes, another one opens and I am not left with only one option. Sometimes life has surprised me, whoever offers to help me with a lot of security in the end does not respond, but I have already looked for other options and just that second or third option that I did not expect, was the one that responded. I have friends and acquaintances who fall into pessimism, however, I inject them with my dose of positivism and they have been able to achieve their goals.
I am empathic, I put myself in the other person's shoes whenever I can, I think it is one of the best ways to give and receive love and affection. It is a magical way of communication, of giving and/or receiving words of encouragement in the moments when we need it most. Empathy, more than a value, is one of the ways to find solutions to the problems of those who cannot see their own problems clearly because they are experiencing emotional situations or worries. There is nothing like empathy to be supportive and understand the other person's thoughts and emotions. Being empathic has allowed me to mediate conflict situations so that they can be mitigated or ended in the best way possible.
I am resilient, in many stages of my life I have had to live difficult situations, however, I have been able to get up and move forward. While I was going through them I felt that my world was ending, but I always remember my mother's words “everything passes” and “nothing lasts forever”. Life is like a roller coaster, sometimes up, sometimes down, sometimes upside down, but in the end, we always get to the flat and stable road, the storm stops, the sun comes out and shines. The important thing is not to stay in the loop, the falls strengthen us and teach us not to stumble over the same stone, and if it's our turn, we will know what to do.
This has been my summary of who I am, with my three defining qualities.
The photos are originals taken with my Xiaomi Redmi 9 phone. The editions were made with the GridArt application
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