Hello @firayumni. The oldest of five does bring a lot of responsibility. I think that the oldest child naturally feels responsible in helping the parents care for and teach the younger ones. Sometimes being the first born brings on a bit of resentment due to the fact that more responsibility is placed upon you. You just want to be a kid too with the rest of them, not corralling them. And younger siblings can be a handful.
When you say:
When i think back, i dont think i ever hate the fact that i am a first born even when i was younger. I always enjoy the fact that i have four lovely younger siblings. They’re always warmed my heart.
That is such a nice sentiment and regard toward the younger ones. I know they look up to you and respect you .
I can feel that you're a wonderful BIG sis!
Thanks for sharing, and take care.
I think that we can be kids too while helping take care of our siblings. That is why we should never one big responsibility to the oldest alone. My second sister help me a lot during our childhood, so i have never once thinking that i was forced to bear all the burden. And we also try to make everything fun. Some people wants to play with their friends but we 5 siblings enjoy each other’s company the most. So, its not even difficult at all