Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. As humans our mood and how we feel varies from time to time, and the environment and people around us in most cases have a way of influencing how we actually feel, we have people who whenever they are around us have a way of getting on our nerves and there are also people who when they are around make us laugh and we fund ourselves feeling very happy and we move around with a happy and smiley face whenever they are around. Our emotions and how we feel will always vary, sometimes we feel extreme happiness, sometimes extreme sadness and we also have tikes whee we are just in between and cannot decide the category we actually fall into, we cannot say if we are happy or sad.
Most times knowing people's current emotional state before we tease and make jokes around them is very important, there are people who do not know how to read the room and end up making a good joke at the wrong time and then the other person reacts in a way they least expected and then they are given the wrong label just because of the mood they were in. Most of the time when we react off emotions, the end result is always bad, but at least 20 percent of the time it ends up being good, but that does not mean making acting off emotions a good habit.
Acting off emotions without thinking it through can land you in trouble, the many times I have acted off emotions left me in regrets and only a few time of acting off emotions left me feeling happy. When I checked my portal to see I have been given admission, I rushed to share the news with my friends and we all celebrated and everyone said congratulations and we kept shouting happily and out of excitement a friend suggested that me gaining admission calls for a celebration and that I should take them out as I will be leaving soon they should spend my money, another concurred and without even thinking it through I rushed to say yes.
About 5 of us marched to crunches (an eatery nearby), it was when these guys started ordering that I realised they did not have my best interest at heart because why would a guy order food and still order ice cream and chicken all because they were not the ones paying. Out of excitement and celebration of me gaining admission I almost spent all the money I worked for months for and saved in the name of school but I spent almost half of it to celebrate my admission. After making payments I kept wishing I could turn back the hands of time to when I saw my admission, I would have just kept it to myself or when they suggested celebrating it I would have just declined but it was already too late and I had to kept wallowing in regrets for sometime until I was over it.
We should always keep the responses we give to people in check when we are sad or happy, sometimes when too sad or too happy we can decide not to give answers to people and wait when we are back to ourselves because at that point you can either agree to something that will affect negatively or positively without thinking it through.
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Just tell them you want to ease yourself, It's not everything I'll tell you.
There is no formula to control emotions, each of us know ourselves the best and we can try to keep our emotions in check by being conscious about it. We know things we might have done and regretted when our emotions were on high, we can learn from it and correct it in subsequent times.
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I have learnt from the jest now, I will not hesitate to put into practice.
Yeah. We actually get into trouble most times when we allow our emotions get to us. We sometimes get emotional as humans, but we need to have control over it and not the other way round.
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