Well, in most cases, our lifestyles are proportional to what we see our parents and close relative do. For me, I think that we can be who we want to be irrespective of the styles we choose.
There are many outspoken persons who are indoor minded.
For my kind of person, my mood dictate where and what I do..there are times are I want to watch a football match in a crowd rather than alone in the living room. That balances my life and emotions.