Thank you for caring and supporting binkyprod. I did not put it in the main post but it is in a comment that i do suffer from PTSD that i have from being in combat while fighting for my country. The same country that did this to me and my family. The absolute most infuriating thing to me was when they actually had the audacity to try and use my PTSD against me and say that it made me dangerous and unfit to parent. What they were really doing was laying foundation to refer me to more groups, classes, counseling and any other government funded type of bullshit that could benefit from it and add another bogus statistic to their numbers to try and justify their self serving existence. Thats how they work. Please be proactive binkyprod. Use this time wisely to research and inform yourself of your rights as a person and a parent. I wish i could be more helpful but, I know nothing of Canadian family law or Canadian citizens rights. I would recommend that you find the best local family law attorney and introduce yourself. Consider giving a small retainer in case anything ever happens, then he will be there for you. Dont forget that they use court process against you. The day after they take your child (which is usually done late in the day or at night) you have a court hearing. They do this because they know that it is virtually impossible to get private representation with twelve hours notice and you will be forced to use court appointed representation that will pretty much just go along with whatever the court wants. Avoid this by doing the leg work now.
I thank you for your kind words and i wish you the best also. I will pray for your recovery from mentioned illness. God bless you and yours binkyprod
Thank you! I'll keep all this in mind for when I am ready to have a child. We've already begun other types of preparations. I know that each province has their set of laws that are different from other provinces. I will research as you suggest. I already have a consulted a lawyer about other things, so either he'll be able to advise me to refer me to someone who'll be able to advise me.
And I'll pray for your recovery too :) Blessed be!