In sentimental relationships either of concubinage or marriage, there are many factors that must be controlled so that this relationship is lasting and happy with the passage of time.
Love, happiness, consent, one of the positive factors that should be counted, Who does not like to love and be loved? Who does not like to be consented? Who does not like to have enough space? for it is there the essence of everything.
But since not everything is rosy and not everything is full happiness, we must look, understand and control the negative factors that the relationship may have.
So many negative factors that exist, there are two of those that I consider important that you have to control, jealousy and paranoia.
Many people confuse paranoia with jealousy or jealousy with paranoia and that is when we are wrong because we have very different definitions and this involves taking inappropriate behaviors that do not improve the situation. In order to identify, we must bear in mind that:
Jealousy: Feeling that a person experiences when he suspects that the person loves feels love or affection for another, or when he feels that another person prefers a third person in her place.
Paranoia: Mental illness characterized by the appearance of obsessive ideas and absurd situations, based on false or unfounded facts, along with a well-preserved personality, without loss of consciousness or hallucinations.
Taking these definitions into account, I ask you, have you felt or experienced this behavior in your partner? If your answer is NO, let them read these tips to later serve for this situation. If the answer is yes, here are the tips available to help improve the situation.
If your partner is jealous.
It is always good that in the relationship there is jealousy, because it is a sign of love, but not in excess, it is like the saying that "Everything in excess hurts" because it must be like that.
How to control jealousy in the couple?
Be honest, do not tell lies, the truth first of all.
Convey confidence, that your partner knows you from head to toe, from end to end, nothing to hide your malevolent side.
That your partner is visible to everyone, your family, your friends, co-workers, all your environment, that will help you to have full freedom in your relationships.
Wants and loves your partner above all things, who truly feel that feeling.
If your partner is paranoid
As the definition correctly says, it is a mental illness, everything is in the mind.
How to control the paranoia in the couple?
It only remains to show that it is not as your mind says, to carry out reality for paranoia that you can realize that your attitude is misery.
Put into practice the advice given before.
Although I am not an expert on the subject, I express what life and previous situations have taught me, that is why today I develop this topic so that I can help you with these situations.
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