All anybody ever wants is to be loved and accepted, and often times our own views and opinions get in the way.

This is never truer than when I am focusing on feelings specifically my own, I tend to not be good at conceiving how others might feel about something and even less when I feel they need to hear something "tough love" . If I don't pause to think then it carries no weight but when I do and I take their emotions into consideration they tend to hear what I am saying almost coming to the conclusion themselves which is always the best and longest lasting result. tip!