大家好!今天借ffcrossculture 这个平台谈谈自己的退休生活。我籍贯浙江,现居住杭州。我是一位基层公务员,2012年10月份提前办理了退休手续,当时52岁。很多朋友不理解,认为退休后会很无聊。但我退休后一点也不寂寞。读书、旅游、拍照、锻炼,也做一点股票买卖。生活充满着乐趣。
我年轻的时候有一张书签,上面我写上这样一句话:年轻的时候一定要学会拿得起,年老的时候一定学会放得下。这张书签一直陪着我的工作、生活和学习。当我50岁的时候,我就想奋斗过了努力过了,心酸苦辣甜也都尝过了,该放下轻松自己和陪伴家人了。所以,我就决然地办理了退休手续。
退休后我换了一张书签,我也在上面写上一句话:忙要忙的有价值,闲要闲的有滋味。工作价值已经过去了,那么退休还有什么价值呢?我觉的心身健康是最重要的,不给社会添乱,不给孩子负担就是价值。如何闲出滋味呢?我作了一个规划,一年里:陪妈妈几个月,尽尽孝心;到澳洲住几个月与孩子们一起享受天伦之乐;还有时间与爱人和朋友一起旅游享受大自然的神奇。
退休不等于退出生活退出社会来孤立自己,而是第二次人生的开始。我是这样做的:一是调整好心态。不与任何人、事、物攀比,攀比是毒药容易让人心里失衡;二是学习。社会发展太神速了,不学习就有可能走向迷惘,造成不适或成为落伍者;三是旅游。我常与爱人和朋友一起旅游,风景在路上,心在景中乐;四是重视健康。没有健康就没有快乐、安宁!做适合自己的锻炼,坚持合理适度的散步最简单有效,不去参加任何推广保健品类的健康讲座;五是培养一项新的兴趣点。我选择拍照,除了能随时随地可进行外,还可以与旅游同步,其乐无穷;六是投资理财。投资需要一点金融知识,退休了既不能把养老钱全部存入银行等待贬值,也不能全仓杀入股市,应根据自己的能力进行稳健投资。投资的好处是会关心国家财经信息和政策动向,也不会让自己思想僵化。
夕阳无限好,只是近黄昏,诗人李商隐这句千古名言是多少老人晚年生活忧伤感叹的缩影。但我更欣赏朱自清的一句话:但得夕阳无限好,何须惆怅是黄昏。愿所有的退休老人晚年生活活出阳光的心态,活出精彩的第二人生。
下面分享几张我在墨尔本维纳斯湾海滩拍的几张晚霞照片。希望大家喜欢。
我觉得只要身体好,就退休以后那段日子,才是真正的生活!
如果还要带孙子那除外哈。
毕竟退休以后,身体还好,经济能力也有,才是真正享受生活的岁月!
谢谢你的支持!我与你同感。但子孙照顾要适度而不能过度。
对,适度,这个说得好。
现在70 80 90后生活压力很大的,父母帮着照顾一下孙子,确实是非常给力的。
但是也不能过度,因为少部分老人带孩子,容易溺爱,这样对孙子们的成长不利。而且,孩子也需要亲子空间,和父母太疏远,孩子不健康!
另一方面,老人已经辛苦半辈子了,需要休息,也需要自己的生活。他们年轻的时候,一直在照顾家和挣钱,他们也有自己的爱好,应该给中老年生活留下兴趣的空间呀。
对呀!老人带孩子最大问题就是溺爱,这对小孩子的未来是有点可怕的。子女和老人都需要生活空间也很对。否则,还有可能生矛盾呢。
您的心态非常好,非常年轻。
衷心地,祝您健康快乐!
对了,有个小建议。
段落不宜太长。另外,每两段之间空行。
这样大家读的时候,会更舒服,文章的可读性更强。
谢谢您!我会努力的。希望以后能常常得到您的指点。
我也是7月底才来的新呢,指点不敢当呀,一起努力!!
Seb groen goeh nyan
Thanks to provide Great New and Useful Information
退休生活很丰富,就应该这样的生活,越活越年轻。
照片拍的太棒了!
谢谢鼓励!希望你的未来生活更美好、更精采!
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