I’ve watched mothers take care of their children and homes for a couple of years, and I have reached a conclusion that they are beyond human.
How do you explain carrying another human for 9 months, most times to me it seems that point in their life is on hold? The period of taking care of the kid(s) is a crazier stage, waking up before sunrise to make breakfast and get the kid(s) ready for school while at the same time getting ready for work. The kid(s) don’t understand this and many times they are a huge burden to the mother. In all of these she sees them as beautiful burdens, burdens she’ll protect with her life.
I’m not married and don’t have kids yet but I think men need to do better. Don’t be an extra burden, the least you should do is bath the kids while that woman makes breakfast. Most times when you look around, especially in this part of the world you’ll always see a woman with a kid on her back, carrying a bag in one hand and holding a kid in the other all while trying to caution the one walking in front from running into oncoming vehicles. She is 100% conscious of protecting her children, but everything on her mind is how to get home and make dinner for the family all while she washes the children’s school uniforms and look forward to her husband getting back home early (That’s a story for another day)
She gets home and there is no light!
NEPA!!!
You know what?
She still finds a way to take care of everyone before turning in for bed at 12a.m. She gets into bed and the husband, who ate at 8p.m, watched the news till 9p.m and has been in bed for at least an hour wants to have sex. SIGH! All in that same day?
How are women even human? DAMN!
Footnote
Light: Electricity Supply
NEPA: Power Company
@fisteganos Thanks for floating this guest-blogging idea. It feels good to finally have a post up.
It's all about upbringing!
Women have been taught that their foremost responsibility is in taking care of the family. they've understood this, so most of them do it with their all. Some women are not even good at it, The same way some men do not really provide for their family (because that is what they have been taught), but that is not my point.@sayairoko as much as I'd like to feel special like a super-human, I still need to point out that it's not even a woman thing.
What I'm saying is, if we taught our boys to help out in the kitchen, to help bath the younger siblings or feed them or even change their napkins, irrespective of whether there's a girl in the house, then the men would do it so well...and we'd all be superhumans
You captured great points here.
Nobody is built for the kitchen to stand behind the gas cookers. These are all acquired traits.
no wonder the best cooks/chefs are male. There is really in the actual sense of it a "lady role".
we can all be superhumansI agree with you @sussan -
Women were built for this.. A man would typically break down before even starting out! Really, women(especially my mum❤❤) are not human... They are superhumans!!
Women were built differently, it's beautiful watching them handle things the way they do. Anyways what's the world without them? More Chaotic than it already is.
Women are strong. A woman's true potential and strengths shows if she has a good support system, they are a power hose on their own. God really did some magic creating them.
Sometimes I just wonder how women are so strong, it goes beyond what we can measure. It's an innate capacity.
Women are indeed a unique breed. But that is not to say some men don't play this role, as a matter of fact, more men are beginning to join this category more recently.
Thanks for sharing
Women are stronger than we can imagine, it's great some men are stepping up. It's not enough though, we need to take up more responsibilities especially when it has to do with family and society..men shouldn't assume their roles start and end with being providers. There is more..
You've got a point there
No doubt, the female gender are special and they deserve honour among us.. You really tried on this topic
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being a woman , I respect your thoughts, a woman needs care, respect and love from man , more financial support
We respect and love you all, and we promise to do better. Thanks for reading @diya28
I just hope every man on planet earth should see this. Our mothers and wife go through a lot just to see us comfortable and grow. Damn! i'm reposting this. thanks @fisteganos for the reminder
Shout out to our mothers and wives(for the married ones), and to those of us men who are still single..let's make a conscious effort to be better. Thank you for reading.
Women are super-human, I think. How we get around to doing all we do is........ Divinely awesome. Thanks for being so empatic.
Superheroes in real life! Haha @ "Divinely awesome" Bless you ma'am. Thanks for reading.
This is really lovely @sayoiroko and i think we just have to continue reminding our people and they should keep doing better when it comes to women. They are superhumans And i think i will join @fisteganos in resteemin this.very lovely.
Thank you for reading @phenzzy
Women are everything that men are not, we were specially designed to do thinjs men cant at some point, we are supporters thanks for sharing @fisteganos,i admire your work sir
Thank you for reading @meemee
I think women are shy to comment on this unique post. I will like to dedicate this post to all the women in this community and kudos to our own @fisteganos for such a beautiful write up.
Haha! The post was written by @sayoiroko but published here 😁
Shy for what??????
The things some people think they know about women continues to baffle me!
The guess blogging is beginning to make sense... its a wonderful innovative.
No matter how hard we try as men, we can't be as good as they are. I think women are wired differently, to be able to do all they do so effortlessly. Thank you for sharing
Real women are not human. They are goddesses . A woman does multiple things at a time and still functions well. Give a man Two task at a time and see how trouble begins.
This is the best thing ive read all day! :) way to go! you seem like youll make a great husband and father someday with this understanding!! :) I'm not sure how I do it most days and its nice for someone to recognize how "freaking hard" it is!!! :) up voted, re steemed and followed :)