To be honest, what I've heard is that Swedish schools are actually good compared to the rest of Europe, but from what I see everyone here is exactly the same, there is very little in the way of individuality and independent thinking, people here all seem to follow the rules like good little sheep, when you step outside the norm like we have you get a very strange reaction from most people, they really give you a wide berth, people here never seem to question the system and avoid any type of conflict.
It's great what you have done for your children, and your family is living proof the home education works better than sending them to concentration camps.

Thanks for the feedback @anti-sophist