MAKING THE RIGHT DECISIONS

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Decisions affect more than just ourselves it affects everyone around us.Its important to understand the essence of making the right decisions,we need to ask certain questions before taking any decision.who will be affected by me decision?Here are few ways in making good decisions.

images-1.jpeg
source

Dont be selfish:Do your best to act for the good of everyone, not just for your own good. Decisions that can be harmful to others and only benefit you is obviously a bad one it might turn against you. When in doubt please seek counsel. Keep your conscience clean by making the right choices.

Never let emotions influence your decisions:

Nothing enhances bad decisions like fear,frustration.and impatient.Making the right choices means we must eliminate these emotions. If we weren’t afraid of anything, we would act with incredible boldness . If we can be patient and wait for the right time we will make positive decisions. And if we didn’t become so easily frustrated, we would extend our perception. Understand that these feelings are dangerous to the progress of your life and that when you eradicate them, your decisions no longer stem from selfishness or ego but from your highest self. Always remember never make a decision under desperation.

Know who to meet for councel: I really don't advice people to rush into seeking councel but if you have to, then you must know your influences.Some how the answers to our questions is within us, but most people find it difficult to meditate and ponder before taking decisions.But if you need cousel go to your best friend and that's the voice that speaks inside you.External counsel can always be a gamble if you need one then gamble wisely.

Always think positive: Positive thoughts makes everything achievable,which in turn helps you take the right actions to ensure it comes true.Introduce new propect into your life try new things. Put into consideration the entirety of your thoughts,the good, bad and ugly.

download.jpeg
source

Then try and acertian what will become the outcome if you make your decisions from any of them.But i assure you,making decisions from positive thoughts will always give you a good result.

DECIDE WISELY

@nuell cares

Sort:  

Hello! I find your post valuable for the wafrica community! Thanks for the great post! @wafrica is now following you! ALWAYs follow @wafrica and use the wafrica tag!

@resteemator is a new bot casting votes for its followers. Follow @resteemator and vote this comment to increase your chance to be voted in the future!

Congratulations @nuell! You have completed some achievement on Steemit and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

<p dir="auto"><a href="http://steemitboard.com/@nuell" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" title="This link will take you away from hive.blog" class="external_link"><img src="https://images.hive.blog/768x0/https://steemitimages.com/70x80/http://steemitboard.com/notifications/votes.png" srcset="https://images.hive.blog/768x0/https://steemitimages.com/70x80/http://steemitboard.com/notifications/votes.png 1x, https://images.hive.blog/1536x0/https://steemitimages.com/70x80/http://steemitboard.com/notifications/votes.png 2x" /> Award for the number of upvotes <p dir="auto">Click on any badge to view your own Board of Honor on SteemitBoard.<br /> For more information about SteemitBoard, click <a href="https://steemit.com/@steemitboard" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" title="This link will take you away from hive.blog" class="external_link">here <p dir="auto">If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word <code>STOP <blockquote> <p dir="auto">Upvote this notification to help all Steemit users. Learn why <a href="https://steemit.com/steemitboard/@steemitboard/http-i-cubeupload-com-7ciqeo-png" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" title="This link will take you away from hive.blog" class="external_link">here!