Thank you! Unfortunately not everyone is happy to get some guidance and some get angry as they don't see the big picture, or don't care.
Just for clarification for the world: the community tag (the first tag) is not the same as a normal tag (correct me if I am wrong) here.
I'm not sure I understand exactly what you mean, but I'm going to try to answer.
When you are posting in a community, your first tag is the community tag by default, which is something like this hive-174578. I mean you don't have to write this in the tag section as the system is going to write it for you. So yes, if you write a tag in the tag box, that will be the second tag. However, if you post on your blog and not in a community, then your first tag will be the tag you write first in the tag box. I hope it answers your question.
We are talking about the same thing actually. It is about posting in the right community what you are talking about and not adding the OCD tag to a post
Gheheh I get it that people respond annoyed often as this is what people do in general when criticism pops up, even though it is with the best intentions and for the benefit of the bigger picture. Not cool taking those jabs thats why you deserved the respect for what you do!
I am always trying to explain people that adding the OCD tag serves for nothing as OCD curators and actually no one is checking based on tags or checking posts based on tags. But some still think adding curangel, ocd, appreciator and what not, is going to help them, instead of adding relevant tags.
As for the second part of your comment, that is not criticism as we're here to help, but even so, not always is well received :)