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Each of your children has different traits and personalities. Starting from a spoiled person, a cheerful person, quiet and even closed. The nature and personality of the child is certainly not without cause, surely all the characteristics and personality have a background. The role of the family in shaping the character and personality of children is almost certainly the main factor.
I am someone who is in contact with children almost every day because I am one of the people who works in a school as an educator. Where I work there are various traits and personalities of children. One of the characteristics and personality of the children that I want to find the cause of is about the introverted nature of the students in my class.
A child, let's call it Anita. Anita including a quiet and closed. He only hung out with a few friends. Every time she was spoken to, Anita answered only as needed. It is this nature of Anita that makes me take a special approach to Anita. It took quite a while until I finally managed to find the reason why Anita was quiet and withdrawn.
The divorce of her parents, which was preceded by harsh treatment of her mother, has made Anita a quiet and withdrawn child. Especially now that Anita lives with her stepmother. Actually, Anita's stepmother loved her very much, but Anita was still quiet and introverted.
From this case, I would like to conclude that one of the causes of Anita's being quiet and introverted is possibly due to past trauma which often witnessed violent or violent acts.
Hopefully this does not happen to our families and our children. And this is a learning material for all of us. Let's love the family with great affection.