It's time to be part of a new Weekend commitment and it is to create content for the [week #138] of #weekend-engagement, where the friend @galenkp brought us different topics, the truth that this time I was undecided or did not know which one to choose, but thinking well in a situation that happened a few days ago I leaned towards the one that says, if I regretted having told the truth.
I am one of those who think that telling the truth is always going to be the best thing to do and that in general I always say what I think and what I do, what happened, happened and there is no turning back. However, there are things that it is better to keep silent and keep my mouth shut.
Days ago I have a really embarrassing situation, I have an elderly guy, but who looks like a turkey, who had not taken any woman home to live and recently took one, who apparently, according to evil tongues, they say she is not a saintly dove. They always have problems and he ends up leaving the house.
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My uncle says he doesn't want her in the house, but since she is alcoholic, even though she is almost half his age, he feels bad about leaving her on the street. Last weekend, we were with the family at some cultural activities in the city and I saw the woman in question with another man, she was drunk and didn't even recognize me, the worst thing was that I saw them going into a hotel.
Since they already know how she is at home, I tell my mom and my brother, they tell me to tell my uncle, which I didn't want to do, because getting into couple problems is losing out. Just after I told them, my uncle and the woman arrived, that he had found her drunk, so as not to leave her in the street he brought her, but he didn't want her in his room.
Mami, seeing the spectacle, tells him what I told her. My uncle only said, "I thought so. The woman told him that they only went into the hotel because she needed to go to the bathroom. And after a couple of justifications, they walk around together.
I didn't tell the truth at all, I would have kept quiet, I looked prettier. Now that woman will look at me with a bad face every time I go home. This had never happened to me before, but I was ashamed for my uncle. Now yes, you learn from experiences, although I was not the one who told her. That will remain for history.
It is not a pretty story, but it leaves a lesson or reflection, no one learns from someone else's head. However, I am still confident that telling the truth will almost always be the best option, because as you will see, this time it was not so.
Greetings and blessings my dear readers, I hope you enjoyed the weekend and get ready for a new week of well-being.
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It is really a difficult decision to tell the truth or not, because it is about someone dear to you, although as you rightly say, in couple problems a third party always looks bad
Just like that friend, I've known that saying for years and well. I had not been involved in any of that.
But since we saw that situation as lost, mommy wanted me to open my eyes, but that's not how it happened.
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Awww, I can relate about it about my aunt and uncle having that other woman on their own house here in my country. Nobody tells my aunt about it but the truth prevailed. The experiences you had is something to reflect for and I see that you have learned a lot of lessons from it. Best regards my friend and have a great day.
In these cases of a couple, it is best to omit, you do not tell the truth, nor do you lie, since as you say, nobody learns from the experiences of others and each one has to acquire their own teachings, the sad thing is that although that may not end , you may have to endure years repeating that woman the same scene,
Something similar happened with my sister's husband, until one day she invited me to accompany her to her mother-in-law's as she wanted to verify if her husband was really at a job interview and the man was at his mother's house with a friend, that day my sister's blood pressure rose to 220, I had to take her to a hospital,
while her husband got lost with his supposed friend, to summarize the story for you, after that I was left in a bad light for wanting to defend my sister and she has been holding horns for 22 years, that's why I learned to see the bulls from afar. Hopefully your uncle if he opens his eyes. Blessings 🙏🏽🤗