Thank you for sharing your story. I have been around here and I see that most people here are super inclusive. Similar to you I was very happy that in the beginning, I had so many people giving me detailed advice. Although often i still feel like a newbie. So much to learn here. As you say your level of engagement determines your success and fulfillment in this environment.
Without some help from some other experienced members, it can get frustrating here. There were times when I felt like 'what for' am I doing this here. Yet I try to post every day or at least 4 times a week. If orcas keep looking out for the beginners it will make them feel they can grow here. Then we can all grow. That's what I hope for us here.

Cheers