oh, everything you say is 100% real, all mothers have to get rid of that old belief that we shouldn't and can't do anything if our children aren't with us, we need time alone with friends, people who help us renew our energy that is often worn out with the stress of maintaining a home day after day. Many times it has happened to me without realizing that I spend days without even opening the door because the hours go by between one task and another. I congratulate you for recognizing that you need time for yourself and only for yourself.