We learn everyday by day while we grow in that process of learning. Nobody knows it all as we tend to make adjustment wherever possible. No one is above mistake and this we must know as an individual. When you're told the word "I'm sorry" it goes a very long way to reinstall normalcy to a system or situation of things.
Aprendemos día a día mientras crecemos en ese proceso de aprendizaje. Nadie lo sabe todo, ya que tendemos a hacer ajustes siempre que sea posible. Nadie está por encima del error y esto debemos saberlo como individuo. Cuando te dicen la palabra "lo siento", se recorre un largo camino para reinstalar la normalidad en un sistema o situación de las cosas.
Life is too short to bear grudges against another. That someone did what was wrong doesn't mean such an individual is wicked or heartless in nature. What should be done is to make the person realise his/her mistakes before passing judgement on such an individual. Having empathy is very important in life. You tend to put someone in your shoes before passing instant judgement on the person.
La vida es demasiado corta para guardar rencor a otro. Que alguien haya hecho lo que estaba mal no significa que ese individuo sea malvado o despiadado por naturaleza. Lo que debe hacerse es hacer que la persona se dé cuenta de sus errores antes de emitir un juicio sobre tal individuo. Tener empatía es muy importante en la vida. Tiendes a poner a alguien en tu lugar antes de emitir un juicio instantáneo sobre la persona.
When someone does what is not pleasant to you, what is expected of you is to call such a person and asked why they did what they did. Whatever they have to say will then determine the level or type of judgement you give them. This is definitely the normal way of tackling issues of life. We dare not just infringe into someone's privacy and treat them as a nobody but rather handle such an issue with wisdom and consideration. Provided the intruder repeats such an act then it's left for you within your power to do what best pleases you to such an individual.
Cuando alguien hace algo que no te agrada, lo que se espera de ti es que llames a esa persona y le preguntes por qué hizo lo que hizo. Lo que tengan que decir determinará el nivel o tipo de juicio que les des. Esta es definitivamente la forma normal de abordar los problemas de la vida. No nos atrevemos a infringir la privacidad de alguien y tratarlo como un don nadie, sino a manejar este problema con sabiduría y consideración. Siempre que el intruso repita tal acto, entonces está a su alcance hacer lo que más le agrade a tal individuo.
Many people today has been misjudged and many sentenced to prison without adequately tackling their issues unbiasely. No matter the level of what someone must have done to you, there's a need to make your findings before passing your judgement on them. That you're in position someone has never been yet never gives the audacity to dehumanise an individual. We all have rights and no one will like a situation where he/she is been denied of his/her right. So lets add moderacy to everything we're doing in life. Know that we are humane and life is more simple than we take it.
Muchas personas hoy en día han sido mal juzgadas y muchas sentenciadas a prisión sin abordar adecuadamente sus problemas de manera imparcial. No importa el nivel de lo que alguien debe haberte hecho, es necesario que hagas tus hallazgos antes de emitir un juicio sobre ellos. Que estés en una posición que alguien nunca ha estado nunca da la osadía de deshumanizar a una persona. Todos tenemos derechos ya nadie le gustará una situación en la que se le niegue su derecho. Así que agreguemos moderación a todo lo que estamos haciendo en la vida. Sepan que somos humanos y que la vida es más simple de lo que nos la tomamos.
Show love to those in their low state because you never can tell the level or gravity of what they're passing through. Never concentrate more in their inadequacies but rather give a twice thought because taking drastic measures on them. By so doing, we'll definitely make this life a better and desirable place for us to live in.
Muestra amor a aquellos en su estado bajo porque nunca puedes saber el nivel o la gravedad de lo que están pasando. Nunca te concentres más en sus insuficiencias sino más bien piénsalo dos veces por tomar medidas drásticas sobre ellas. Al hacerlo, definitivamente haremos de esta vida un lugar mejor y deseable para vivir.
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I would like to comment daniky because i feel like this post is related to my reaction to your actions, and your own feelings about how i have responded to you breaking the trust i gave to you.
You have not been judged by me, you have been 'let go' because you totally abused the position of responsibility you were given. When you upvote yourself up to THREE times a day at 100% from ecoTrain account you are taking things way past anything you can call a mistake... and to do it every day for weeks is really way beyond anything i can accept whatever your circumstances. Your personal life does not justify your actions, and yet you have tried to defend yourself using this logic.
You ask for forgiveness but do you take responsibility for your actions? You ask for one more chance, but how and why should i trust you or take any further risks when you have gone far beyond anything i would call reasonable. I can forgive you... but i cannot trust you to act responsibly and there is a difference.
I do not think you are a bad person, but i cannot trust you. Until you can see this, and really own your own actions then I don't think you can move past this and learn the lesson that i think you will benefit greatly from learning.
Frankly daniky, this is not easy for me.. this is what we call 'Tough Love'.. I believe you need it because i know you feel bad and i know you need to snap out of your defensive position and fully accept and understand your actions were wrong no matter what your circumstances are.
I'm not justifying my act. I fully accept responsibility for whatever I've done, but your actions and punishment seems much tougher on me than expected. We're humanes and no one is above corrections. I do love the way you called my attention on discord to what i did, though i expected more of corrections from you than instant judgement knowing fully well you've never forwarned anyone in position of the ecotrain's account never to curate a personal post. That was the first warning i got from you and to my greatest surprise you took it up beyond what i could ever imagine. It further seems to me as if there's more to this after much pleas and assurances.
I'm a cultured man who gives honor to whomever deserves it. It's really heartbroken to realise that the person i hold so much in high esteem could go as far as what you did to me after much pleas and dialogue.
Well, my post wasn't referring to you in anyway. I just found it thoughtful to relate my life experience to contemporary happenings. We ain't in a centralised world and it's really not ideal to damage one's reputation beyond the norms. We are humans and do not know where life could take us tomorrow.
Sincerely and irrespective of whatever you've done to me, I love you and respect whatever decisions
you've taken about me. I've accepted my fault and willing to put my pains behind me. Thank you for the comment and do have an awesome moment sir @eco-alex
i think you need to be really honest with yourself..
you DID justify your act by trying to explain you are in difficult times and you think you dont get enough upvotes.
all i did was remove you from the team and remove some of the votes you took.. that is all.. i havent been abusive.. i just cannot trust you to hold the keys.. no matter how much you beg me HOW can i possible trust you suddenly..
you act like a victim here, but yet you have taken 50% of the ecoTrain voting power for a month now! You need to understand why that would make me totally exclude you from any more responsibility.. not only did you upvote every day but two posts and even three a day..
so all i say is you will best to just understand that it's no possible to have you on the team.. how can i trust you after this?
anyways,, i feel i have said enough now.. if you dont understand please speak with your friends who you know and trust and i hope they can help you understand why i have had to stop working with you..
really hope you figure this all out, and just move on ..